Downloading Information Is Not Enough in Parenting with Israel Wayne- 329

OCT 1, 202641 MIN

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You can spend an entire day taking care of your children and still miss the child standing in front of you. We manage schedules. Check assignments. Correct behavior. Monitor screens. Drive to practices. Prepare meals. Solve problems. Keep everyone moving in the right direction. Those things matter. But somewhere in all that parenting activity, the relationship can quietly become secondary. And that matters because as our children grow, our ability to control their choices decreases. Our opportunity to influence them, however, can remain strong when we have built a relationship marked by trust, presence, conversation, and genuine connection. In this episode of Equipped To Be, I'm joined by author and speaker Israel Wayne for a conversation about what happens when parenting becomes more about downloading information to children than knowing them. We talk about the difference between control and influence, why parents need to remain present as their children mature, and how strong relationships give parents an opportunity to speak truth into their children's lives long after "because I said so" stops working. We also discuss why being physically near our children is not the same as being emotionally present, how easily busyness can crowd out meaningful conversation, and what parents can do now to strengthen connection without abandoning authority. Your child doesn't need a perfect parent. But he or she does need you to focus on both: the child's formation and the relationship. If you've been wondering how to stay close to your child while still preparing them to become responsible, independent adults who love the Lord, this conversation will encourage you to look beyond everything you are doing for your child and pay attention to the relationship you are building with your child. Listen now and consider one important question: Do I really know the child I'm raising right now? Am I focused on imparting knowledge, while missing the relational aspect of parenting? Read the full show notes with links here: Downloading Information Is Not Enough in Parenting with Israel Wayne If you enjoy listening to Parenting and Homeschool Advice ~ Equipped To Be with Connie Albers, please leave a review and a five-star rating. It is easy and will only take a few seconds. When you do, it helps others see the show in their feed. Also, would you kindly share this with a friend or two? Equipped To Be might be an encouragement to them, too. Thank you ~ Connie Have a question? Interested in having Connie speak? Send an email to Connie here: https://conniealbers.com/contact/