Ep. 423 - From People-Pleasing to Unshakeable Self-Worth: The Process with GG Renee

What if validation, love, and belonging were things you could give yourself? What would change if you could truly see and trust your own magic? Jessica sits down with writer, creative coach, and TBMer GG Renee for a powerful conversation about family dynamics, self-worth, and creating a life rooted in authenticity rather than external validation. GG shares how growing up with a mother with undiagnosed mental illness shaped her relationship with safety, people-pleasing, achievement, love, and her sense of self. Through therapy, writing, and TBM, she began uncovering the core belief underneath so many of her patterns: that something was fundamentally wrong with her. They explore why understanding your patterns isn’t always enough to change them, how self-trust can transform your relationship with money and uncertainty, and how to value your gifts without needing external validation. GG also shares her journey from corporate life to a creative career, redefining discipline as devotion, manifesting her book, and embracing her sensitivity, imagination, and slower pace as strengths. If you’ve ever felt too sensitive, too behind, or like you need to prove your worth before you can receive what you desire, this conversation will show you what becomes possible when you learn to create safety from within. Full show notes → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast Resources: App Updates Coming 9/9 The TBM app is getting a major upgrade to make your manifestation practice more guided, personalized, and easy to follow. New features include personalized weekly schedules, 90-day + 3-6 month roadmaps, and much more. Coming 9/9! The Be Seen Challenge Quiet your inner critic, stop playing small, and start manifesting the life you truly want. Now live inside The Pathway. 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As usual, TBM20 gets you 20% your first order Join Anima Mundi’s five-week live masterclass In this episode we talk about: GG Renee’s childhood experience growing up with a mother later diagnosed with schizophrenia How childhood instability can shape self-worth, people-pleasing, and adult relationships Returning to your inner child’s creativity, sensitivity, imagination, and authenticity The difference between appearing confident and actually having deep self-worth Recognizing the subconscious beliefs driving your relationship patterns Why intellectual awareness doesn’t automatically create embodied change How TBM helped GG uncover her core wound Releasing limiting beliefs around being too sensitive, too much, too old, or not enough Building your trust muscle when money, clients, and opportunities feel uncertain Moving from desperation energy into nervous-system safety and self-trust Why slow manifestation can help you actually hold what you call in Owning your creative gifts, charging for your value, and healing the starving-artist narrative Why you don’t have to be popular to make a meaningful impact Replacing discipline with devotion to create sustainable aligned action How consistent habits helped GG embody her identity as an author and manifest her book Mentioned In the Episode: Find our Be Seen Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Expand Your Capacity, Competency, and Worst Case Scenario DIs) Connect with GG IG: instagram.com/ggreneewrites Check out GG’s books: Amazon, Bookshop, Broadleaf Books Subscribe to GG’s Substack: Writing the Layers Connect more with GG at allthemanylayers.com HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips (with exercises by Jessica Gill) Available now! The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way. At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity. Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to: – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true self With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live. Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest. Where To Find Us! @tobemagnetic (IG) @Lacyannephillips Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here @Jessicaashleygill @tobemagnetic (youtube) @expandedpodcast