This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit <a href="https://femchaospod.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_7">femchaospod.substack.com</a><br/><br/><p>Kat and Phoebe discuss the latest in "heterofatalism", how to write about heterosexuality without oversharing about your sex life, and the viral jumbotron sex scandal with shades of the 1990s-era L'Affaire Bobbitt.</p><p>LINKS:</p><p>She tried an open marriage: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.theparisreview.org/blog/2022/06/29/scenes-from-an-open-marriage/">Scenes from an Open Marriage</a></p><p>It didn't work out: <a target="_blank" href="https://www.nytimes.com/2025/07/21/magazine/men-heterofatalism-dating-relationships.html">The Trouble With Wanting Men - The New York Times</a></p><p>Kat tweete…</p>