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Finding The Upside
Maria DeLorenzis Reyes
#198: The Cost of Silence: Why Not Speaking is LOUD
SEP 29, 202617 MIN
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Description
Most of us don't stay silent because we don't care. We stay silent because we don't want to make things worse, create conflict, or say the wrong thing. But what if our silence is communicating more than we realize?
In this episode of Finding the Upside, and as part of the series “Living Your Values”, I explore the hidden cost of staying quiet—both in our personal lives and as leaders. From the workplace to our communities, I examine how the moments we choose not to speak can shape culture, relationships, and the values we claim to stand for. I also share why courage isn't always loud or dramatic.
More often, it's found in the ordinary choices we make every day to stand beside someone, ask a difficult question, or simply refuse to look away.
If you've ever wrestled with whether to speak up or stay silent, this conversation is an invitation to reflect on what your choices are communicating—and how one act of courage can create space for others to do the same.
Here’s a quick look at what you can expect from today’s episode…
[1:44] Why Silence Is Never Truly Neutral
[5:26] The Culture Leaders Create by What They Tolerate
[8:16] How Relationships Make Courage Personal
[11:19] The Hidden Cost of Staying Silent
[15:19] What's the Upside? Why Courage Is Contagious
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