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Glow Up, Gyrl
Glow Up, Gyrl
The Authority Shift: Stop Waiting to Be Chosen and Start Leading with Shirley Sutton
OCT 15, 202642 MIN
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Description
What if the promotion you keep waiting for is waiting on you to act like you already have it?
Shirley Sutton knows the feeling from the inside. She once watched a colleague mention her idea in passing, get the credit for it, and get promoted, while she stayed put as “the reliable one” who always got things done. Today Shirley is a leadership coach and People and Culture leader with years in talent, recruitment, and HR, and the creator of the Managers to Leaders program. Kyra sits down with her to talk about why so many women wait for permission to lead, and what changes when they stop.
In this episode:
The meeting where someone else got credit for Shirley’s idea
Why being “the reliable one” can keep you right where you are
Why waiting feels safe, and what it costs you
Outsourcing your worth to someone else’s timeline
What the Authority Shift actually means
Why becoming a parent is the best analogy for stepping into authority
The day Shirley asked “who normally does this?” and the answer was “you do”
Reading the room and knowing when to take it offline
Why you should apply for the role even if you might not get it
The one small step to take if you feel invisible at work
Inside the Managers to Leaders program
Whether you are a manager eyeing your next role, already holding the title but not quite feeling it, or the person everyone counts on but nobody promotes, this conversation will meet you right where you are.
Learn more: ascendly.online
Follow Shirley: @ascendly_career_coach
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