Why College Breaks Neurodivergent Students (And How to Fix It)

Are you a grandparent raising a neurodivergent grandchild, feeling both proud and anxious as high school graduation approaches? Have you spent years protecting them, only to realize that the transition to college is a daunting cliff, stripping away the legal protections and daily support they’ve relied on? Does the idea of sending them into a maze of unfamiliar systems, forced to self-advocate overnight, fill you with dread and uncertainty? You’re not alone in facing these challenges. Many of us have devoted ourselves to fighting for our grandchild’s rights—endless IEP meetings, constant emails, staying vigilant with school portals—all out of deep love and a desire to shield them from harm. But when the safety net disappears after graduation, it’s not enough to simply protect; we must equip our grandchildren to become their own best advocates. Welcome to “Grandparents Raising Grandchildren: Nurturing Through Adversity.” On this podcast, we delve into the complexities of kinship care—especially when supporting neurodivergent children and those navigating trauma. You’ll hear from experts like Dr. Tara Williams, a trailblazer in higher education and a champion for students with disabilities, who shares practical strategies for building self-advocacy and implementing universal design at home. Together, we’ll examine every stage of this journey, from the emotional reality of letting go to concrete steps parents and grandparents can take to bridge the gap between K–12 protections and college independence. Discover stories of hope, insight, and resilience from families just like yours. We’re here to offer not just advice, but a community of support and understanding. Read more here about Dr. Williams and the Innovative Collegiate Consultants team.  Join me as we empower both ourselves and our grandchildren to navigate uncharted territory and create brighter futures—side by side, never alone. Send us Fan Mail So many caregivers are doing what may seem the impossible to others. Here's one from this week. You all are my heroes! Share your story. It matters! New! Grandparents Raising Grandchildren Online Support Circle! Starting Wednesday, October 7th, we meet every other Wednesday from 12:30 PM to 2:00 PM Eastern. A peer-first, confidential space—free from cross-talk, judgment, or unsolicited advice. Guided by certified therapists, specialized family coaches, and counselors who truly understand kinship care. I want to know how you’re doing. Is the podcast giving you what you need? What support are you missing most right now? Send me a Direct Message on Facebook or Instagram or email me directly at [email protected]. I read and reply to every message because this community is built on supporting each other! Thank you for tuning into today's episode. It's been a journey of shared stories, insights, and invaluable advice from the heart of a community that knows the beauty and challenges of raising grandchildren. Your presence and engagement mean the world to us and to grandparents everywhere stepping up in ways they never imagined. Remember, you're not alone on this journey. For more resources, support, and stories, visit our website and follow us on our social media channels. If today's episode moved you, consider sharing it with someone who might find comfort and connection in our shared experiences. We look forward to bringing more stories and expert advice your way next week. Until then, take care of yourselves and each other. Want to be a guest on Grandparents Raising Grandchildren: Nurturing Through Adversity? Send Laura Brazan a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/grg Liked this episode? Share it and tag us on Facebook @GrandparentsRaisingGrandchilden  Love the show? Leave a review and let us know! CONNECT WITH US: Website | Facebook