Ephesians: The Worthy Life is Contested | Rev. Lex Akers

4 October 2026What does it really mean to put on the armour of God?In the final message of our Ephesians series, Rev. Lex Akers explores one of the Bible's most familiar passages, revealing that the armour of God is not simply a list of spiritual tools for times of crisis, but the natural outcome of a life transformed by Christ.Rather than focusing on dramatic spiritual battles, this message shows how the real battleground is often found in our everyday choices, relationships, attitudes, and pursuit of unity. As we stand firm in the strength of the Lord and live out everything Paul has taught throughout Ephesians, we discover that God's armour equips us to faithfully follow Jesus in every area of life. Scripture: Ephesians 5:21 to 6:9 Paul's teaching on relationships has often been misunderstood or misused. Before approaching this passage, we must allow Scripture to speak within its biblical and cultural context, while recognising that Jesus remains the centre of every relationship. Context matters Understanding the historical and literary context helps us hear what Paul was communicating to the original readers rather than reading modern assumptions into the text. Our goal is not to make Scripture fit our culture, but to allow God's Word to shape our lives. Mutual submission begins the passage Paul begins by calling believers to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. This sets the tone for every relationship that follows, reminding us that humility, service, and love are marks of a Spirit filled life. Marriage reflects Christ and the Church Marriage is designed to point people to Jesus. Husbands are called to love sacrificially, following Christ's example of laying down His life for the Church. Wives are honoured as equal image bearers who willingly respond within God's design for marriage. Jesus is our example Healthy relationships begin by becoming more like Christ. The closer we grow to Jesus, the more our words, attitudes, and actions reflect His character. The Gospel transforms families Paul's teaching extends beyond marriage into relationships between parents and children, and throughout the household. The Gospel doesn't simply improve relationships, it transforms them as people are shaped by the Holy Spirit. Living differently Followers of Jesus are called to relate to others in ways that stand apart from the patterns of the world. When Christ is at the centre, our homes become places of grace, service, forgiveness, and love. Key Takeaway God's design for relationships is not built on power or control, but on the sacrificial love of Jesus. As we submit to Christ and allow the Holy Spirit to transform us, our relationships become a powerful witness to the Gospel.