<p>In this episode of <strong>Brolapse</strong>, HungerFF sits down with <strong>BottomGuyNYC</strong>—NYC bar manager, shameless fister, and proud red-hanky flagger—to talk about why, for him, <em>fisting isn’t sex… it’s a sport</em>.</p><p><br></p><p>They dig into what it means to “train” for play, why a hand in someone can feel less intimate than dick-and-butt sex, and how he balances a 21-year open relationship where his husband is his emotional home—but the kink happens elsewhere.</p><p><br></p><p>From nervously sitting in the car before his first Fist Fest to organizing fisting meetups on Atlantis cruises and Telegram, BottomGuyNYC breaks down the <strong>bond between fisters</strong>, the power of living openly at work, and how mentorship in kink still survives in the age of algorithms.</p><p><br></p><p>If you’ve ever felt “weird” for how you experience sex, intimacy, or kink, this conversation might make you feel a little less alone.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>In this episode:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li><p>Fisting as a sport vs. “real” sex</p></li><li><p>Navigating an open relationship after 20+ years together</p></li><li><p>Flagging red at work and stripping away shame</p></li><li><p>Fist Fest as the “Olympics” and family reunion of kink</p></li><li><p>Telegram, cruises, and building offline community in an online world</p></li><li><p>Mentorship, safety, and why only showing the extreme 45 seconds can be dangerous</p></li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Follow BottomGuyNYC:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li><p>X (Twitter): <strong>@bottomguynyc</strong></p></li><li><p>BlueSky: <strong>@BottomGuyNYC</strong></p></li><li><p>JustFor.Fans: <strong>https://justfor. fans/bottomguynyc1</strong></p></li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>🎧 <strong>LISTEN &amp; SUBSCRIBE:</strong></p><p>YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL3uJBareUPFci58BJ0NtwtoIOKKuaaBIa</p><p>Spotify: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/Brolapse</p><p>Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/408WLLX</p><p>Amazon &amp; Audible: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/57bbf689-250a-4c96-8559-0a79805f18b6/hungerff-presents-brolapse</p><p>iHeartRadio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-hungerff-presents-brolapse-290151273</p><p><br></p><p>🕗 New video episodes drop every <strong>Friday at 8 PM</strong>.</p><p>🎥 Early video access for Spotify subscribers.</p><p>🔥 Full video available exclusively on https://HungerFF. com 🔥</p><p><br></p>