398. Watch this if you’re lost in life at 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29...

At 17, I had no idea who I wanted to become. No textbook exists for turning into a man. School teaches you rules for a subject. Nobody teaches you the rules for a life. 100 years ago this wasn't a problem. You did what your father did. You worked the family farm, learned the family trade. Barely any choice, so barely any anxiety. Now you've got infinite options. And there's a name for what infinite options does to you: the paradox of choice. The more you could become, the harder it is to become anything at all. That's not depression. That's not anxiety. That's a man with no target for the spear. I spent years working out how to find that target, how to turn "I could do literally anything" into "I know exactly what I'm building and why." It came down to a handful of questions most people never sit down and actually answer. I made a full video walking through the entire process: the exercise I still use every year, the framework for wealth, health, and relationships, the exact thing I told myself at 17 that changed my trajectory. Watch it here - https://youtu.be/U0JG8sYjZzY