Intentional Leader with Cal Walters

Cal Walters

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Let's be honest. The hardest person you will ever have to lead is the person you look at in the mirror everyday. Self-leadership is the most important thing we do as leaders, but it's hard. And it hasn't gotten any easier in a world of smart phone addiction, social media comparison, global pandemics, and information overload (just to name a few obstacles). That's why Intentional Leader exists. We help leaders take the guesswork out of self-leadership, fight a reactionary lifestyle, accelerate their personal growth, and achieve their God-given potential at home, at work, and in their communities. This is why we get out of bed each morning. We love helping leaders on their personal growth journey! Because we know when the leader gets better everyone benefits. Organizations, communities, and families all thrive when the leader is thriving. We are a team of ordinary people with an extraordinary passion for personal growth and helping leaders thrive. Join this community to pursue personal growth and leadership excellence, to inspire others, and make a lasting impact on the world. Life is short, so let's make it count by living an intentional life. On this podcast, Cal Walters — a follower of Jesus, a husband, father, West Point graduate, former Infantry Officer, Army Ranger, combat veteran, lawyer, and Army JAG — passionately explores ways to live intentionally, make each day count, and lead with greater influence and impact. Cal firmly believes leadership matters, and this podcast will help you lead yourself and inspire others. Cal believes we each have a unique contribution to make to the world, and he wants to help you make yours! For show notes, visit https://www.calwalters.me/ Disclaimer: The views expressed on this podcast are those of the author and guests and do not reflect the official policy, position, or endorsement of the US Army JAG Corps, US Army, DoD, or the US Government.

Recent Episodes

SEP 5, 2026
140: Dan Casey & Griffin Brand — Coach Bill Walsh's Playbook for Winning: Culture, Standards, Resilience, and Leadership
➡️ Get my free weekly newsletter (The Intentional Letter): https://courses.calwalters.me/signup Apply to join the Intentional Leader Lab: https://courses.calwalters.me/thelab Get the book or connect with Dan and Griffin: https://bringyourownpencil.com/ What does it actually take to build a winning culture? In this episode, I sit down with Dan Casey and Griffin Brand, authors of Bring Your Own Pencil: Bill Walsh's Playbook for Winning at Anything, to explore the leadership lessons behind legendary San Francisco 49ers coach Bill Walsh. We talk about how Walsh transformed one of the NFL's worst organizations into a championship team, why great cultures eventually become self-policing, how leaders establish meaningful standards without micromanaging, and why the moments when you feel closest to quitting may come right before a breakthrough. In this conversation: 00:00 — Welcome + the Intentional Leader Lab 01:24 — The story behind Bring Your Own Pencil 04:05 — Ronnie Lott, Hacksaw Reynolds, and personal preparation 06:23 — How leaders create a self-policing culture 08:12 — Candid feedback without tearing people down 09:50 — Bill Walsh's Standard of Performance 11:24 — Setting clear standards without micromanaging 12:43 — The danger of "productive procrastination" 13:37 — What were Bill Walsh's actual standards? 15:51 — How to create standards for your own team 18:15 — Why authentic leadership matters 20:56 — Why Bill Walsh wanted everyone to call him "Bill" 22:58 — Great leaders operate at 30,000 feet and in the dirt 26:04 — Bill Walsh's long road to becoming an NFL head coach 29:00 — What to do when your opportunity hasn't arrived 31:01 — Your "permanent base camp" for preparation 33:23 — Did Bill Walsh ever want to quit? 36:41 — The Valley of Death 37:39 — Why setbacks often come after success 38:39 — Why the people around you matter 41:23 — Why leaders need to be led 43:37 — Build a personal board of advisors 45:49 — Bill Walsh's coaching tree and the legacy of a leader 48:48 — What is "permissionless apprenticeship"? 50:47 — How Dan made Bill Walsh his mentor 53:55 — Charlie Munger, Benjamin Franklin, and self-education 55:17 — Why personal development is your responsibility 56:34 — How to connect with Dan and Griffin 59:46 — Final thoughts: private victories precede public victories Please visit my website to get more information: https://calwalters.me/
61 MIN
JUL 21, 2026
139: Ryan Hawk — How to Build Life-Changing Confidence
📘Order Ryan's New Book, The Price of Becoming: https://learningleader.com/ ➡️ Get my free weekly newsletter (The Intentional Letter): https://courses.calwalters.me/signup What does it really take to become the person you're capable of becoming? In this conversation, Ryan Hawk shares the lessons he's learned from interviewing more than 700 world-class leaders, the habits that build lasting confidence, and why keeping promises to yourself is the foundation of consistency. We also discuss the surprising letter that changed Ryan's life as a child, his years-long pursuit of Jim Collins, and the leadership lessons he's learned from his wife and family. If you're looking to grow as a leader, spouse, parent, or person, I think you'll find this conversation both challenging and encouraging. 00:00 Introduction 01:10 Why Ryan Hawk Loves Long-Form Conversations 03:04 How Interviewing Became a Core Part of Ryan's Life 06:22 The People Who Shape Who We Become 07:44 The Letter Ryan Received at Eight Years Old 09:54 Prove Your Supporters Right 13:16 The Motivation Behind Ryan's Work 16:56 Responsibility, Service, and Productive Paranoia 19:08 Have a Plan, Work the Plan, Plan for the Unexpected 22:39 The Real Price of Becoming 25:44 How Confidence Is Built Through Consistency 28:05 Are Some People Naturally More Disciplined? 32:16 Be Careful About the Promises You Make 35:36 Ryan's Unfiltered Perspective on Waking Up Early 38:49 When Your Strengths Create Tension at Home 41:49 What Ryan's Wife Said About His Growth 44:14 Why Curiosity Is One of the Greatest Ways to Show Love 47:52 Modeling Love, Marriage, and Leadership at Home 50:37 Ryan's Years-Long Pursuit of Jim Collins 54:34 How Ryan Finally Got Jim Collins on the Podcast 56:29 Meeting One of His Heroes 58:23 The Price of Becoming and Where to Find Ryan 1:00:25 Closing Thoughts Please visit my website to get more information: https://calwalters.me/ 🔔𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐮𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬. https://www.youtube.com/@intentionalleader_calwalters/?sub_confirmation=1
61 MIN
JUN 25, 2026
138: Eva Rose Daniel — How Great Speakers Captivate Any Audience
Learn more about (or apply) for the next Clarity Cohort: theclaritycohort.com What separates a good speaker from a great one? In this episode, Cal sits down with Eva Rose Daniel, a speech coach and communication strategist who has spent nearly two decades helping leaders, authors, speakers, and public figures communicate with greater clarity, confidence, and influence. Eva has worked with voices like Dave Ramsey and Jefferson Fisher, and in this conversation she shares practical, tactical advice for anyone who wants to become a more memorable and effective communicator. Cal and Eva discuss why preparation matters, how to rehearse well, how to sound more authentic, how to overcome procrastination and imposter syndrome, and how to tell stories that actually connect with an audience. This episode is especially helpful for anyone who leads meetings, teaches, preaches, pitches ideas, gives presentations, speaks on stage, or wants to communicate with more confidence and clarity. In This Episode, We Cover: 00:00 Introduction 01:20 What Eva learned from working with Dave Ramsey 04:42 What makes a speech unforgettable 08:26 How to sound more authentic 11:31 Internalize your content instead of memorizing it 14:37 How to rehearse effectively 22:10 How to overcome procrastination 27:23 Imposter syndrome and speaking confidence 35:45 How to receive feedback without losing confidence 41:05 How to give clear, specific, kind feedback 45:33 How to tell better stories 54:02 Why every speaker needs a story file 55:12 Eva's SPARK framework for preparing a talk Key Takeaways Great speakers are never too good to practice. The best communicators don't wait for a big stage to refine their skills. They practice in everyday conversations, meetings, and smaller opportunities. Memorable communication usually includes strong storytelling, authenticity, and a clear framework or point of view. Instead of memorizing a speech word for word, internalize the main ideas so you can communicate naturally. Your first time giving a presentation should not be in front of the actual audience. Practice with trusted people and ask for specific feedback. Procrastination is common, but Eva recommends "planned spontaneity": prepare the structure early, then leave room for timely examples, humor, and fresh insight. When imposter syndrome shows up, remember that someone invited you because they believed you had something valuable to share. Feedback should be clear, specific, and kind. Every leader should keep a story file to capture meaningful moments, funny observations, lessons, and examples. Practical Application Before your next presentation, ask: What do I want my audience to know? What do I want them to feel? What do I want them to do? Then use Eva's SPARK framework: S — Start with a story P — Identify the problem A — Give the action steps R — Resolve what you opened K — End with a knockout close Connect with Eva Rose Daniel Website: thespeakshop.com LinkedIn: Eva Rose Daniel Listen and Subscribe If this episode encouraged you, helped you grow, or made you think, please subscribe, leave a review, or share it with a friend.
61 MIN
MAY 8, 2026
137: Jamie Winship — How Great Leaders Handle Fear, Conflict, and Difficult Conversations
➡️ Get my free weekly newsletter (The Intentional Letter): https://courses.calwalters.me/signup Email [email protected] if you're interested in learning more about the Intentional Leader Lab. Learn more about Jamie Winship and his work: https://www.identityexchange.com/ Get Jamie's new book, The War of Worldviews: https://www.identityexchange.com/books Jamie Winship returns to the Intentional Leader Podcast for a deep and honest conversation about fear, identity, conflict, truth-telling, and what it means to lead from love instead of self-protection. Jamie is a former CIA officer, conflict mediator, speaker, and author of Living Fearless and The War of Worldviews. In this conversation, Jamie shares vulnerably about his own fear of being a disappointment, how leaders often use self-protection and self-promotion to cover insecurity, and why truth-telling is one of the most powerful tools for resolving conflict. We also explore how leaders can help people in conflict, why anger is often connected to fear, and why leaders must model the freedom they want to create in others. Jamie is a Christian, and this conversation includes discussion of faith, prayer, Jesus, and Scripture. Whether or not you come from that faith background, this episode offers powerful insight into what it means to be human, to face fear honestly, and to lead with courage, love, and truth. In this episode, we discuss: Why fear is valuable but should not make decisions for us How leaders self-protect and self-promote when they feel afraid Why conflict is usually rooted in fear How to tell the truth without weaponizing vulnerability Why leaders must do their own inner work first How to help people in conflict reconnect as human beings Why love, not fear, is the better leadership motive How to stay grounded in high-stress situations 00:00 Introduction 01:37 Jamie's core fear: being a disappointment 04:47 How fear shows up in leadership 05:13 The decision to take his family to Iraq 07:33 When leadership decisions go wrong 08:29 Why truth-telling is the path through fear 10:16 Only truth can remove a lie 12:28 What Jamie says to himself when fear rises 12:50 Fear makes simple things complicated 15:13 Tracing fear back to an old wound 17:31 Asking God where He was in the painful moment 19:42 What happens when leaders don't process fear 20:17 Self-protection and self-promotion 21:31 Don't get your identity from the room 22:14 Can leaders be motivated by love instead of fear? 22:38 Every decision comes from fear or love 25:59 Jamie's definition of love 26:05 Serve and protect vs. enforce and control 30:32 How leaders should handle conflict on their team 32:16 Fear is what produces conflict 34:36 Underneath anger is usually fear 36:53 How identity changes conflict resolution 39:23 "I'm not qualified to do that" 40:12 Leaders must model the freedom they want to create 42:36 How two people in conflict can tell the truth 45:02 A CEO chooses humanity over HR process 47:13 Is truth-telling too vulnerable in conflict? 47:46 Truth-telling vs. vulnerability 49:03 A real-world conflict resolution example 53:25 Why present pain usually has a past root 56:25 What to do if you can't remember where the fear started 57:21 Habits for staying calm under pressure 57:49 Keep your brain in your own car 01:00:41 How the future helps us deal with fear 01:01:07 Getting the enemy out from behind you 01:03:34 Cal's biggest takeaways
65 MIN
APR 24, 2026
136: Jordan Montgomery — Why Even High Performers Need Encouragement (and How to Lead with It)
➡️ Get my free weekly newsletter (The Intentional Letter): https://courses.calwalters.me/signup Check out Jordan's work: https://www.montgomerycompanies.com/ 00:00 Intro + Why Encouragement Matters (Even for High Performers) 01:09 Why Everyone Needs Encouragement (No Matter Their Success) 02:35 What Elite Performers Have in Common (They All Have Coaches) 04:16 The Paradox of Growth: The More You Learn, The More You Need Help 06:25 How Jordan Coaches Leaders (2 Powerful Questions) 07:44 "What Do You Want?" + "Who Are You Really?" 10:01 Why Most Leaders Struggle with Self-Awareness 11:47 Identity, Calling, and Becoming an Encourager 13:27 Jordan's Failure Story (Losing His Career at 27) 15:53 "You're Not Buried, You're Planted" (Valley Season Lessons) 17:01 The Power of Self-Encouragement 19:32 How to Rewire Your Thinking (Speak vs. Listen to Yourself) 21:32 Practical Self-Talk (What It Actually Looks Like Daily) 23:27 The Art of Authentic Encouragement 23:56 Why Specific Encouragement Is More Powerful 26:59 Final Takeaways + How to Encourage Others Better 27:42 Practical Leadership Application (Cal's Closing Thoughts) What if encouragement isn't just "nice"… but essential for leadership? In this episode of the Intentional Leader Podcast, I sit down with Jordan Montgomery, bestselling author of The Art of Encouragement, to unpack: Why even elite performers need encouragement The surprising link between success and coaching How to lead yourself when your mindset is off Why most encouragement feels fake—and how to fix it A simple framework to become a better encourager today This conversation is short—but packed with practical wisdom you can apply immediately in your leadership, your family, and your team.
29 MIN