PEACE “For I know the plans I have for you”Jeremiah 29:11 | Chris Crossen

Chris Crossen shares the sudden loss of his wife, his journey, and realizing God's plan are not always our plans. He reveals that God still has a perfect plan for his life. "For I know the plans I have for you". Jeremiah 29:11. Have you ever faced a season so dark that you wondered how you'd make it through—only to look back and see God was carrying you the entire time? Chris, soon-to-retire Assistant Chief of the Dalton Police Department, sits down with us to share a story that stretches from a bold college romance to unimaginable loss, and then to a surprising new beginning. Chris and his wife Allison built a beautiful life together—raising two children, putting God first, and keeping their promise to never go to bed angry. But in December 2023, what began as routine knee pain revealed a rare bone cancer, and just ten weeks later, Allison was called home. What happened in that hospital room, and in the months that followed, is a testament to the power of faith, intentionality, and the quiet way God prepares us for the hardest days of our lives—long before we know they're coming. Highlights Chris's unforgettable first kiss with Allison—complete with a cheering squad of roommates waiting to see if he'd keep his word The deal they made before getting married: never go to bed mad How a routine knee surgery led to a devastating cancer diagnosis The thunderous voice Chris heard in the hospital: "I've got you" How losing his father in 2020 during COVID began preparing him for what was ahead The gratitude list Allison left behind on her phone—found by her children after she passed The morning a devotion asked "Who are you?" and Chris realized he didn't want to be "just okay" anymore Reading the Bible cover to cover for the first time and becoming intentional in prayer The mysterious way a high school classmate's Facebook profile kept appearing—and what happened when Chris asked God to make it obvious His sister-in-law walking into a restaurant at the exact right moment Chris's message to anyone in pain: be intentional in seeking God, and He will put you where you need to be Chapters 0:00 – Welcome & Introductions 0:39 – Meet Chris Crossen 1:21 – The Love Story with Allison 5:18 – A Devastating Diagnosis 6:03 – "I've Got You" 8:50 – Losing His Father in 2020 10:26 – Allison's Gratitude List 14:10 – From "Okay" to "Great" 15:00 – Becoming Intentional 16:40 – A New Chapter Begins 19:40 – God's Guidance Through It All 21:40 – Final Encouragement Resources Mentioned The Bible App – Chris used the Bible app's daily guided devotions each morning, which prompted a turning point in his grief journey. Leadership Dalton – Chris and Audrey met through this community leadership program.