When Reassurance Makes Things Worse

Reassurance is undoubtedly one of the most valuable ingredients in helping a partner feel secure and loved. But sometimes the thing we say because we love our partner and want to make things better, is exactly what makes them feel worse. So in moments of emotionality, what if leading with reassurance is actually getting in the way of our partner feeling understood? In this episode, Zoe explains why we jump to reassurance so quickly and what we can do instead to ensure our partner feels heard. Connect with Zoe: Web: www.zoecox.com.au Instagram: @layersoflovepodcast Free Relationship Resources mentioned in episode called: Making The Hard Conversations Easier - A Video Series Link to Zoe's Tedtalk: Sustaining Intimacy through parenthood    Layers of Love is produced on the lands of the Gundungurra and Wiradjuri people. We pay respect to their unique and diverse cultures and to elders past, present and emerging.