EP 688: Self Love in Action: You're Ghosting Yourself in Your Relationship

If you love yourself beautifully when you're single and then lose yourself the second you're in a relationship, this one's for you. We're wrapping up Self-Love September with the question so many of you bring to me: what does it actually look like to love yourself while you're loving someone else? I spent years focused on becoming securely attached and attracting my person, and then I had to learn that staying me inside the relationship was a whole different skill. Because two, three, even seven years in, you can look in the mirror and not recognize who's looking back. Loving yourself in a relationship is how we prevent the resentment, the self-abandonment, and those sudden "I can't do this anymore" moments before they ever start. Whether you're dating, partnered, or ready to course correct, this is your roadmap. Inside the Episode: The sneaky way so many of us ghost the most important friendship we have the moment a relationship begins Why your partner being disappointed with you might actually mean you're doing this right The one on this list that made me emotional, and why it takes the longest to master Start showing up for yourself today: Identity Reset is my daily practice mini-course to help you rewire how you see yourself from the inside out, one small, doable practice at a time. Grab the Identity Reset today! Ready for the deepest level of support? I have just two VIP 1:1 coaching spots open for October. If you're ready to feel confident, securely attached, and free from your past relational trauma (and you don't want to wait until 2027), apply using the link below. It takes five minutes, and I would love to walk this journey with you. Apply for the VIP program here!