You Wanted Him to Choose You. Would You Choose Him Now?

Send us Fan Mail Sometimes the hardest part of heartbreak isn’t losing someone. It’s wondering why they didn’t choose you. In this episode of Life’s a Blog, Trina talks about a conversation with a friend that brought up rejection, betrayal, boundaries and the things women sometimes tolerate while waiting for someone’s actions to finally match their words. She shares why a small incident with an old Chromecast unexpectedly brought back anger from a past relationship, and how she caught herself before letting someone else’s past behaviour take over her present. Using “Better Man” by Little Big Town as the musical thread, Trina explores the difference between missing someone and missing who you hoped they would become. She also talks about rejection and abandonment wounds, the importance of spending time alone after a relationship, and the practical steps that can help you stop looking backwards and start rebuilding your own life. Because eventually the question changes from: Why wasn’t I chosen? to: Would I choose them now? And sometimes that answer tells you everything you need to know. Support the show Just a quick note! I’m not a therapist, counsellor, or mental health professional. I’m simply sharing my personal experiences, reflections, and the things I’ve learned while navigating my own healing journey. Everything discussed on this podcast comes from my perspective and is meant for conversation and storytelling purposes. It should not be taken as professional advice. If you’re struggling or working through something difficult, I always encourage you to seek support from a qualified professional. This podcast is intended for entertainment, reflection, and shared human experience.