Ep. 294 | When Being Nice Is Actually Evil

Do you avoid hard conversations, keeping the peace until something finally gives? In this episode, Fr Columba looks at why confrontation feels so difficult and why Jesus never shied away from it. Drawing on Christ's teaching about going to a brother who has wronged you, he explains the difference between being nice and being loving, and how needing to be liked can stop us from being real with the people we care about. If you find it hard to speak up, this is an invitation to a love that is honest, free and willing to get its wellies dirty. 🔴  THIS SERIES Little by Little | Episode #294 Little by Little is a weekly video series by Called to More in collaboration with the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal. Our host, Fr Columba Jordan CFR, brings you quality Catholic content with new episodes every Thursday at 9pm GMT. Be sure to subscribe! 🔴  MEMBERSHIPS We couldn't create this series without our members. If you find these videos helpful or think they might help others, please consider becoming a member below. Members receive exclusive content. You can join us here: https://www.calledtomore.org/community Thank you, and welcome to the team! 🔴  WEBSITES For more content, visit our website: https://www.calledtomore.org For more on the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal, visit their website: https://www.franciscanfriars.com 🔴  SOCIAL MEDIA YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuTsNUh9sBx3hs1sN3wtgrg Instagram: ​​https://www.instagram.com/ctmcatholic Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CTMcatholic Apple (Little by Little): https://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/little-by-little/id1499383321 Spotify (Little by Little): https://open.spotify.com/show/44xk6UNVwgQosJ9SjWsSgr?si=cf802912eddb487c Spotify (Meditations): https://open.spotify.com/show/7H2lvtJHubfoLvrUNEM3gs?si=ee22786b71624c6f