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Lunch with Leaders: Influence Extraordinary Authentic Women in STEM Careers for Empowerment
Adaeze Iloeje-Udeogalanya | Authentic Influencer for Women Empowerment Experts
Uma Subramanian: How to Build Influence, Authority, and Lasting Impact in STEM Leadership - 072
SEP 28, 202649 MIN
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Description
This episode of "Lunch with Leaders" with Uma Subramanian and Adaeze Iloeje-Udeogalanya explores how professionals—especially women in STEM—can bridge the perception gap to become visible and sought-after leaders.
Uma Subramanian shares actionable frameworks for building influence, communicating value, and developing a powerful leadership reputation.
Key topics include the SOAR framework, overcoming self-doubt, leveraging failure, and building supportive networks to maximize career impact.
Connect with Uma Subramanian Online:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/uma-subramanian-limitless
https://thelimitlessleaders.com
Who Is This For?
This episode is primarily for professional women in STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics), especially those in mid-career and senior leadership roles who feel overlooked, undervalued, or are seeking greater visibility and impact at work.
About 30% of listeners are men, so the insights are useful for all ambitious professionals aiming to close the "perception gap" and become sought-after leaders.
Key Moments & Timestamps
00:00:00: Uma Subramanian shares her background and journey of self-intentional growth.
00:02:20: Adaeze Iloeje-Udeogalanya introduces the goal of the podcast and Uma Subramanian's leadership journey.
00:03:10: The motivation behind founding Limitless Leaders.
00:04:26: Identifying the perception gap in organizations.
00:07:39: Deep dive: what is the perception gap and why it matters for career advancement.
00:08:28: Uma Subramanian shares a formative Microsoft story about misattribution of credit and learning to "own the narrative."
00:16:13: What it means to be a “sought-after leader.”
00:18:19: The difference between great and sought-after leaders.
00:24:03: Introduction to the SOAR framework (Strategic Impact, Outstanding Communication, Authority, Relationship Mastery).
00:29:00: The importance of inner work, belief, and resilience in leadership.
00:33:38: The concept of a "trusted circle" as vital support for leaders.
00:39:43: Normalizing, reframing, and responding to failure.
00:46:29: Long-term impact: What Uma Subramanian hopes listeners achieve.
00:47:27: Where to find Uma Subramanian and her book.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Q: What is the perception gap?
A: The gap between the value you truly create and what others see, understand, and trust about your leadership (08:02).
Q: Why do women in STEM struggle with visibility and advancement?
A: Many are in the minority, often misunderstood or overlooked, and may not communicate their value clearly at work (14:49).
Q: What is the SOAR framework?
A: Strategic Impact, Outstanding Communication, Authority/Personal Brand, and Relationship Mastery (24:03).
Q: How do I become a sought-after leader?
A: By thinking beyond your role, building cross-organizational relationships, clear value communication, and developing self-belief and resilience (18:19, 24:19).
Q: How should leaders approach failure?
A: Normalize and reframe failure as data or feedback, and seek support from a trusted circle (39:43, 34:25).
Action Steps
Assess Your Perception Gap: Reflect on whether your contributions and reputation match—seek feedback (08:17).
Speak for Your Work: Ensure your value is actively communicated, not just assumed (10:44).
Expand Relationships: Intentionally build networks and trusted circles for support and advocacy (20:41; 34:25).
Develop Your SOAR Skills: Focus on strategic thinking, communication, personal branding, and influence (24:03).
Embrace Failure as Feedback: When setbacks occur, reframe them as learning opportunities and seek guidance (40:49).
Clarify Your Vision: Define what you truly want in your leadership journey (42:40).
Get the Book: Read “The Sought After Leader” for frameworks and practical exercises (47:39); connect with Uma Subramanian on LinkedIn for continued support.

