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Daniela Tempesta, LCSW | Psychotherapist for High-Achieving Overthinkers

2: The Arrival Fallacy Every High Achiever Needs to Understand

OCT 22, 202614 MIN

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You hit the goal. Got the win. And your brain immediately asked, "What's next?" If success keeps feeling like a moving target, no matter how much you accomplish, there's a name for that, and it's not a character flaw. I'm breaking down the arrival fallacy: why high achievers can't stop chasing the next milestone, why your nervous system is literally wired to move the goalpost the moment you reach it, and what it takes to stop outsourcing your sense of worth to outcomes. Plus, a simple neuroscience-backed practice that starts rewiring your brain toward I'm already okay, instead of more proof needed. If you've ever Googled "why doesn't success make me happy," this one's for you. Check out the show notes and other resources at https://thetempestagroup.com/the-arrival-fallacy-high-achievers/ New York Times Article - Baking Cookies In My Mother’s Kitchen Send me a message! Let's stay connected Find me on Instagram at @tempestatalk Check out resources at: https://thetempestagroup.com/resources/ This podcast is brought to you in partnership with Leah Bryant Co.