Are You Raising Independent Kids or Holding Them Back?

Are we protecting our children or preventing them from growing up? Letting go is one of parenting's greatest challenges, but could holding on too tightly be doing more harm than good?  Kate welcomes psychologist Dr Amy Todey for an insightful conversation about raising independent, resilient children while managing the fears that come with giving them freedom.  From helicopter parenting and age appropriate risks to the emotional challenges of watching children become adults, they explore why allowing mistakes, embracing discomfort and trusting children's abilities are essential for healthy development.  Amy shares personal experiences of giving her young son greater independence, while Kate reflects on navigating relationships with her adult children and setting boundaries as a grandparent.  Together, they discuss how overparenting can undermine confidence, why parents need to rediscover their own identities and how listening with empathy can strengthen family relationships.  It's a thoughtful reminder that successful parenting isn't about maintaining control forever. It's about giving children the confidence to find their own way while knowing they'll always have your love and support.   Listen for: 06:44 When should parents actually start letting go of their children? 11:03 How do you tolerate your anxiety when your child gains independence? 15:51 Why is letting children make their own mistakes so important? 19:59 Why does letting go feel like grief, even when kids thrive? 28:25 What does Dr. Amy Todey say adult children really want from parents? Guest Dr. Amy Kincaid Todey | Psychologist Website |  Instagram    Leave a rating/review for this podcast with one click   Contact Kate: Email | Website | Kate’s Book on Amazon | LinkedIn | Facebook | X