44: Respect- Manner, Boundaries, and Modern Parenting

Text Us Here! Respect is supposed to help kids move through the world—but what happens when discipline feels too strict, too soft, or just plain confusing? Sil and Inish unpack the tension behind modern parenting, from old-school “because I said so” rules to gentle parenting that may be drifting into passive parenting. Along the way, they ask a question many families face: Is respect automatically owed, or does it need to be modeled and earned? Through honest stories and relatable parenting moments, they talk about fear-based authority, clear boundaries, communication, and the everyday challenges of back talk and kids pushing limits. They also explore the regional divide over “yes ma’am” and “yes sir,” and whether enforcing specific manners teaches respect—or simply compliance.  In this episode, you’ll hear why obedience isn’t the same as respect, how parents can correct behavior without humiliating or shutting down their children, and why apologizing to your kids can strengthen connection rather than weaken authority. Sil and Inish share how modeling manners, explaining expectations, and finding a balance between warmth and firmness can help parents stay connected while setting boundaries. Whether you’re navigating different parenting styles at home or trying to raise respectful kids without losing the relationship, this conversation offers plenty to reflect on—with a few laughs along the way. Follow us on: Instagram Youtube TikTok Facebook This episode may include references to alcohol. As always, we encourage responsible sipping- water, mocktails, and coffee count too.