Deconstruction: Episode 7

Deconstruction from Men! This is not your normal “deconstructing” conversation! As a Christian Counselor, my assignment is always to do deeper; we take the conversation beyond the surface! “You don’t have to be on your back, on your knees to feel loved. You don’t have to lower your standards to have a man “aka” grown boy in your life. It’s always been pushed to neglect yourself as a woman to empower a man aka grown boy to pick himself up. You should push aside what you’ve been called to do to encourage and drive him into greatness! This is male centered behavior and it isn’t a narrative that Kingdom women should be a part of!” “Men who don’t know who they are and whose they are will destroy everything in their path!” Father God, I pray for your daughters that have found themselves drawn away by these type of grown boys in their daily lives and in the churches that they attend. I pray that they look deep within and find themselves again and find what drew them away in the first place and get the counseling and therapeutic help that they need. I pray that their heart is repaired, their vision be restored, their purpose be revived, their passion be renewed and their relationship with you be rejuvenated!   Abba Father, I pray for your sons that have allowed themselves to be drawn away into enemy territory and have taken on his evil ways. I pray that they will find their way back to you, repent, make amends and change from their wicked ways! I pray they become the fathers their children need, find their wife; be a godly husband and obtain the favor that only you can give and fully and completely walk in who you need them to be for their communities, their households and for the church but more importantly, your Kingdom!   In Jesus mighty name, I pray!!