Five Unsexy Tips for Better Sex Every Time

Let's talk about five things that are quietly killing your sex life that have absolutely nothing to do with attraction, technique, or how much you love your partner… because after 20 years of helping people improve their sex lives, I can tell you we are way too quick to assume low desire means something is wrong with us. Sometimes the conditions around your sex life just suck. In this episode I'm giving you five very unsexy tips that can make your sex life a whole lot better, and I promise at least one of them is going to make you go, oh that's exactly us. Fair warning: number three is the one everyone rolls their eyes at. And it's the one that actually works. ABOUT EMILY: Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.` CONNECT WITH EMILY: Best Sex Ever Tour: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/events⁠ Shop With Emily: ⁠https://shop.sexwithemily.com⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/⁠ X: ⁠https://twitter.com/sexwithemily⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily⁠ Threads: ⁠https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily⁠ WANT MORE? Visit the Website: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/⁠ which includes FREE guides. Free Downloadable Guides: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/guides/⁠ Text With Me: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/text⁠ Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe⁠ This episode is sponsored by: Bellesa: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE Rose suction toy with their order! ⁠https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast⁠ ============================= Chapters: 00:00 Cold Open / Welcome to Sex with Emily 01:24 Maybe Your Sex Life Doesn't Need Fixing 01:48 The Five Unsexy Things Overview 02:29 Tip 1: Stop Making Sex the Last Thing on the List 05:38 Tip 2: Lube Is Not a Report Card 07:54 Tip 3: Put Possibility on the Calendar (Schedule Sex) 10:46 Tip 4: Your Sex Life Doesn't Live Outside Your Body 12:38 Where to Keep Your Lube (Plus a Product Note) 13:21 Tip 5: You Can't Go From Project Manager to Sex Goddess in 30 Seconds 16:21 Recap: Pick One Unsexy Thing to Start 17:29 Outro & Where to Find More Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices