Social Skills Coaching

Patrick King

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While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now... Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships. He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.

Recent Episodes

OCT 1, 2026
Why Your Questions Kill Conversations (And How the Funnel Technique Fixes It)
Ever killed a conversation by asking too much, too soon? Learn the funnel questions conversation technique to keep dialogue flowing smoothly without making others feel interrogated. Patrick King breaks down how to ask better questions, guide deeper conversations, and use paraphrasing technique to actually listen—so people want to keep talking to you. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 2:16 Funnel Questions Overview 5:06 Using Funnel Questions in Various Scenarios 8:05 Post-Game Interviews and Question Techniques 13:02 Avoiding Generic Questions for Meaningful Conversations 18:43 Assisting People's Stories in Conversations 22:02 Patrick King’s Approach to Eliciting Stories In this episode, Patrick King shares his expertise on enhancing your social skills and communication through powerful questioning techniques like funnel questions and therapeutic questioning. Learn how to master effective questioning and improve your conversational flow with tips on asking better questions, paraphrasing technique, and more, all aimed at helping you have deeper conversations that showcase your emotional intelligence in every interaction. Hear it Here - https://www.audible.com/pd/B0C34FDBS4/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-349819&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_349819_pd_us Check it out at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C1BLRSW6 Hear it Here - https://www.audible.com/pd/B08GY3TBVX/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-214119&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_214119_pd_us Check it out at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08FHXMWV4 Hear it Here - https://www.audible.com/pd/B097TWC37W/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-265965&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_265965_pd_us Check it out at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0976S4RGT https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWFnONPWH9KovyVXBsGSB-g
28 MIN
SEP 20, 2026
Why Conversations Die (And the Simple Pattern That Keeps Them Alive)
You're mid-conversation and suddenly hit dead air. You scramble for the next thing to say, and the whole interaction feels forced. The FOOFAAE acronym breaks down the seven types of contributions that maintain conversation flow and keep things engaging naturally. Learn how each element works, why some conversations die while others thrive, understand the conversation dynamics at play, and how to stay present without overthinking every exchange. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 2:15 Topic Name Revisited 5:43 Autobiographical Comments 6:39 Conversational Lifeboat 8:29 Adjusting for Flow 10:52 Flexibility in Communication 17:01 Open-Ended Questions 19:16 Leading Statements Dynamics 23:20 Specific Questions Benefits In this episode, Patrick King dives into the art of keeping a conversation flowing smoothly with tips on how to maintain that perfect conversation flow and stay present in every interaction. From small talk to deeper discussions, learn FOOFAAE and other flexible conversation techniques to keep your chats engaging and dynamic—perfect for anyone looking to improve their social skills and conversation dynamics. Hear it Here - https://www.audible.com/pd/B0D6S1FHJ1/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-402704&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_402704_pd_us Check it out at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D2DBNHS6 Hear it Here - https://www.audible.com/pd/B08TK96H1S/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-235620&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_235620_pd_us Check it out at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08RY4HMHX https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWFnONPWH9KovyVXBsGSB-g
27 MIN