Spirit Church

You sent over 60+ relationship questions anonymously. We answered them. Not the safe ones… the ones you'd ask a friend in a parking lot. Some of them were fun. Most of them were just real. So for the last week of It's Complicated, Brad and Paige went through them one at a time, out loud, in front of everybody. For singles: what to do with a season you didn't choose, and what most people get wrong about waiting. For dating: where the line actually is. Not a feeling. A boundary. For marrie...

Sex is not gross. It's a gift. But almost nobody hears it that way — because the church has largely gone quiet on it, and the world has not. So we grew up on a set of lies. It's just physical. It's not a big deal. It's private, it doesn't hurt anyone. And once those get you in, a second set keeps you there: this is just who I am now. I'm too far gone. If they really knew, they'd leave. In Week 5 of our series, It's Complicated, Brad has the conversation most churches skip — for the hurting, f...

Dating isn't your problem. Deciding is. You don't have a shortage of options... you have an infinite amount of them. One more swipe. One more app. One more profile. And somewhere in there we stopped asking "is this someone I can build a life with?" and started asking "could there be someone better one swipe away?" In Week 4 of our series, It's Complicated, Brad talks to singles about how to date God's way — and reminds married people they never actually stopped dating. But before the how, hea...

There's nothing wrong with him. And there's nothing wrong with you. You've spent years thinking he was broken. He isn't broken — he's male. He's spent years thinking you were broken. You aren't broken — you're female. God designed you opposite each other on purpose, before sin ever entered the picture. In Week 3 of our series, "It's Complicated," Brad talks directly to the women — and gives the men a picture of who they're called to love and lead. When God said "I will make a helper," the...

Adam was standing right there. ‍ When the serpent showed up in the Garden, Adam wasn't off somewhere else. Scripture says he was with her and he said nothing. A lot of what men carry today traces back to a man who went silent when it was his job to speak. ‍ In Week 2 of our series, It's Complicated, Brad talks directly to the men — and gives the women a biblical standard to look for. ‍ Before Eve was ever in the picture, God gave Adam a work to produce, a place to protect, and a Word to prese...