How to Rebuild Your Life After Divorce Without Losing Yourself | With Myesha Chaney

Myesha shares what it was like to leave an 18-year marriage and suddenly lose friendships, relationships, identity, and parts of her faith along the way. Together, Toni and Myesha talk about the messy reality of healing — where grief and relief can exist at the same time, where pain does not disappear overnight, and where freedom sometimes looks like simply taking the next right step. They also dive into the importance of learning from your pain, taking accountability without blaming yourself, surrendering unanswered questions to God, telling the truth without becoming bitter, and giving your children permission to have their own relationship with each parent. And when it comes to dating after betrayal, Myesha offers one unforgettable reminder: “Anything harmful loves speed.” This episode is for anyone learning how to trust themselves again, rebuilding after divorce or heartbreak, or trying to figure out what life looks like on the other side of survival. Because healing does not mean erasing your story. It means learning how to carry it differently. Watch the full episode on YouTube.com/@tonijcollier and share it with someone who needs hope that there really is freedom after the ending. To financially support Toni's ministry, donate here: https://shorturl.at/GsH9y Audio-only pod version: https://pod.link/1627335605 Subscribe to the podcast newsletter: https://tinyurl.com/stillcoloringpod Follow Myesha Chaney on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/4j2xuu3s Pre-Order Myesha's Memoir "Honest" Here: https://tinyurl.com/mrypfwb7 For booking Toni: https://www.tonijcollier.com/booktoni Other resources can be found at tonijcollier.com! Watch podcast episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tonijcollier Support the Still Coloring Podcast: https://square.link/u/u2FkAzC7?src=sheet Shop Toni's merch: https://www.shopetch.co/collections/toni-collier Connect with Toni: Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonijcollier Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stillcoloringpod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/colliertoni Newsletter: ToniJCollier.com/Newsletter Website: ToniJCollier.com Purchase Toni's newest book, Don’t Try This Alone: https://amzn.to/3BQqaBr Purchase Toni’s children’s book, Broken Crayons Still Color: https://amzn.to/3x3I4xD Purchase Toni’s first book, Brave Enough to be Broken: https://amzn.to/3VoCjVu