There Are 90 Days Left This Year. Are You Going to Lock In or Wait for January?

There are ninety days left in this year. Most of us will run them down to nothing. Halloween, then Christmas, then January first, where we finally lock in. Until we wait for spring. Until it is Christmas again. And the loop repeats. Not this year. In this episode I am talking about what I realized on my flight home from Greece, journaling at 30,000 feet, connecting with the woman I want to be on December 31st. What she looks like. How she feels in her body. What she did to get there. And working my way backwards from her, not toward her. Because the difference between the women who actually get what they want and the women who keep starting over on Monday is not talent. Not luck. Not genetics. It is one thing: they kept going when it stopped being fun. They did not quit right before the identity shift happened. This episode is also the story of how a conversation with my friend Jenny turned into something I was not planning. A free three hour live workshop on October 3rd. Because why lock in alone when we can do it together? In this episode: Why most high achieving women do not have a starting problem, they have a week two, week three, week four problem Why quitting usually happens right before the actual shift and why that makes it feel so justified The neurological reason change is hard in the beginning and exactly when it stops being hard The ritual I do every time I go somewhere new: who do I want to be in this place? How I connected with my December 31st self on that flight and what she told me that surprised me The difference between a habit tracker and actual identity work Why discipline is self-trust in action and how locking in on small things teaches you to trust yourself in big ones The six step framework I am walking through live on October 3rd Join the free LOCK THE FCK IN WOKSHOP: October 3rd, 3 to 6pm Spain time. 2 to 5pm UK. 9am to 12pm Eastern. Sign up here: https://v2.stan.store/twelveoutoften/p/ltfi-workshop 48 hour replay available if you cannot be there live. Find me here: Instagram: @nadjaloveslife DM me AUDIT for the free 12/10 Life Audit. DM me TWELVE to work together.