The Time Machine Dilemma: Would You Change Your Past If You Could? | Ep 529

OCT 6, 202618 MIN

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Almost everyone knows the exact moment they would go back to if they had a time machine, and the exact decision they would change. This is about why that fantasy lies to you, where regret actually comes from, and the one sign that you've healed it.In twenty years as a therapist, very few people ever told me they regretted a choice they made from their own ground. Regret almost always sits in the choices made for love, approval or belonging: the incoherent sacrifices, the distorted compromises, the quiet self-betrayals we call kindness, and the ledger we keep of them.Tell me in the comments: what moment would you go back to, and would you actually step into the time machine?00:00 The time machine question 02:05 You don't know what happens after 03:56 Incoherent sacrifice 06:02 Where regret actually sits 08:05 The ledger and the invoice 09:50 My own time machine 13:16 The origin and the genesis point 15:18 The sign that you've healed 17:23 Your questionThe Atlas is free. It names the pattern running your life in a single sitting: https://www.codexofthearchitect.com/?utm_source=spotify&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=time_machineThe free book, Before Approaching the Threshold, to read or listen: https://app.codexofthearchitect.com/audio/before-approaching-the-thresholdMichael Lauria