You Have the Right to Change Your Mind

Sis, when was the last time you changed your mind about something without feeling guilty, questioning yourself, or worrying about what somebody else would think? For many of us who grew up with emotionally unavailable, controlling, or overly critical mothers, changing our minds can feel irresponsible. We've been conditioned to believe that once we make a decision, we have to stick with it, even when it's no longer what we want. But who said that? In this episode of the Black Mother Wound Podcast, I'm sharing a lesson I learned as a little girl that has stayed with me for almost 45 years: Every woman has the right to change her mind. I'm also sharing some personal changes I'm considering in my own life and how healing my mother wound has helped me become more comfortable making decisions based on what I actually want, without needing to justify them to anybody else. We're talking about perfectionism, people pleasing, self-trust, and why having the freedom to change your mind is an important part of reclaiming your autonomy. And yes, we're talking about accountability too, because being able to do what you want doesn't mean you get to avoid the responsibilities that come with your choices. In this episode, we're talking about: How growing up with a controlling or emotionally unavailable mother can make you afraid to change your mind. Why changing your mind doesn't mean you made a mistake. The difference between making decisions for yourself and making decisions based on other people's expectations. Learning to trust your desires, even when they change. How honoring your choices helps rebuild trust with your inner little girl. Why personal freedom also requires accountability, responsibility, and integrity. Stay Connected I'm also excited to share more about The Daughterhood, a documentary short exploring what becomes possible for Black women as we heal our mother wounds. We're preparing to launch our crowdfunding campaign, and I'd love your support in helping bring this project to life. Check the show notes for more information. Follow the conversation on Instagram at @blackmotherwound, and don't forget to subscribe, rate, and share the podcast. And remember, sis: Nothing has to be wrong with what you have for you to want something different. You have the right to change your mind. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.