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Welcome to the Daily Quote, the podcast designed to kickstart your day in a positive way. I'm your host Andrew McGivern and this episode is brought to you by the Great News podcast. And you should listen because good news needs to be heard. Today's episode is a first for this podcast. Every quote I've featured has come from history, from books, from interviews. From someone I've read or studied but never met. Or at least don't know personally.Today's comes from someone I know. A good friend. Someone I was sitting next to when he said it.His name is Francis Cheung. Frank holds a PhD in Bioengineering and Biomedical Engineering and he is a man whose mind operates at the intersection of science and human complexity. And several years ago, Frank and I were camping on Quadra Island, British Columbia. We were up early, the two of us, watching the sun rise over Rebecca Spit - a long, quiet stretch of beach with the ocean on both sides and nobody else in sight. Nobody, except for one man. Standing alone out on the sand, facing the waves, completely still.And Frank looked at the scene, paused, and said:"It's like a metaphor for life. Every man stands alone."The people in the tents next to us laughed. I don't think they were laughing at Frank. I think they were just surprised that Frank was such a philosopher. I wasn't surprised at all but I still found the moment funny. There's something about a solitary figure on a beach at dawn that goes beyond the intellect and speaks directly to something deeper. The ocean doesn't care how many people are watching. The waves arrive regardless. And no matter how many people you have in your life there are moments where you face the ocean alone. Where the enormity of things meets you as an individual. That's what Frank saw in that man on the sand. Not loneliness. Solitude. And there's a world of difference between the two.Loneliness is the unwanted absence of connection. Solitude is the honest recognition that some things can only be faced from within. Your interior life... the questions that keep you up at night, the values you're trying to live by, the meaning you're building from your particular experience of being alive. Nobody else can navigate that for you. You stand at that shoreline alone. Every man. Every woman. Every person, regardless of how loved, how surrounded, how connected.The great philosophers understood this. Montaigne, who we featured in this podcast, retreated to his tower to think. Thoreau went to Walden Pond. Jung descended into his own unconscious. Frank probably focuses on the force.Not to escape the world, but to face something in it that could only be faced alone. I've thought about that morning on Rebecca Spit many times since. The stillness of it. The sun coming up over the water. One man out there on the sand doing something that looked like nothing which was actually, as Frank immediately understood, everything.What Frank captured in that single sentence was something a PhD in philosophy might have taken a whole chapter to say. This podcast, in its own small way, is my version of standing at that shoreline. Showing up every day, by myself... facing something, trying to make sense of it. Alone in the doing of it and even though your listening right now, I won't know about it. Okay, enough of the cheesy metaphors... I'm not as good as Frank at this, clearly.So here's the question: When did you last allow yourself to stand at the metaphorical shoreline? To be with the vast, quiet, unanswerable things, without filling the silence, without reaching for your phone, without making the solitude into something more comfortable than it needs to be?Because Frank is right. Every man stands alone. Not as a tragedy. As a truth. And a truth, honestly faced, is always the beginning of something good.That's it for today. I'm Andrew McGivern I'll see you in the next one with another Daily Quote.

Welcome to the Daily Quote, the podcast designed to kickstart your day in a positive way. I'm your host Andrew McGivern and this episode is brought to you by the Great News podcast, because good news should be heard and the link is in the show notes.Today's quote is widely attributed to Margaret Mead, one of the most famous and influential anthropologists of the 20th century, whose career was spent travelling the world studying vastly different cultures to understand what makes us human. She is credited with saying:"Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else."Go ahead and laugh. Then stay with it, because underneath the joke is one of the most generous ideas you'll encounter this week.The joke works because it appears to contradict itself. You can't be absolutely unique if everyone else is too. Uniqueness, by definition, implies distinction, being unlike the others. So the punchline lands as a gentle deflation of the self-seriousness that always remember you are unique can sometimes carry.But Mead wasn't just being witty. She was being precise.Her life's work was built on cultural relativism, the principle that different cultures have their own unique values and norms, each worthy of study and understanding on their own terms. She spent decades travelling to Samoa, Bali, New Guinea, immersing herself in communities radically different from her own. And what she found, consistently, was this: every culture is unique. Every individual within every culture is unique. And that uniqueness is universal. It is the one thing every human being on earth shares without exception. That's not a contradiction. That's the most human truth there is.You are unlike anyone who has ever lived, your particular combination of experience, perspective, memory, loss, joy, and life story is genuinely singular. And so is every other person you will ever meet. The colleague who frustrates you. The stranger on the train. The person whose life looks nothing like yours and whose choices you don't understand. All of them are absolutely unique. Just like you.Mead spent her career arguing against the assumption that any one culture, any one way of being human, was superior to another. Your uniqueness doesn't elevate you above others. It places you alongside them. In the most democratic possible arrangement, everyone special, nobody exceptional alone. That's not a diminishment. It's an invitation. To hold your own singularity with a little less solemnity, and to extend to every other person the same recognition of irreducible, absolute, universal uniqueness that you'd like extended to yourself.When I was at University, I remember my Psychology professor asking the class who believes they are above average. Almost everyone put up their hand, including me. Then he said that is great that we have healthy ego's in the class and also isn't it awesome that we live in a world where everyone can be above average.I remember thinking... touché. Of course everyone can't be above average. By definition at least half of us would have to be below average. And I wondered if I was one of the below average people. But then I thought... wait a minute. He asked a general question about being an above average person. And his point is that we can't all be above average. But if we get more specific, every single one of us in the class could absolutely be above average at something. And probably were! That was my take away from that lesson.So here's the question: Is there someone in your life right now whose uniqueness you've stopped fully seeing? Someone who you label as below average without knowing their unique talent or gift that makes them special and unique?Because Mead spent a lifetime crossing oceans to understand people who were nothing like her. You are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else. That's it for today. I'm Andrew McGivern and I'll see you in the next one with another Daily Quote.

Welcome to the Daily Quote, the podcast designed to kickstart your day in a positive way. I'm your host Andrew McGivern and this episode is brought to you by the Great News podcast. Because good news should be heard and the link is right here in the show notes.Today's quote comes from William James: philosopher, psychologist, and widely regarded as the father of American psychology. A man who spent years in the grip of depression and existential paralysis before making one decisive choice that turned his life around. He once wrote: "Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does."Twelve words. The first ten are the instruction. The last two are the answer to every excuse for not following it.Most of us have felt, at some point, the quiet and corrosive suspicion that what we do doesn't really matter. That we are too small, too unknown, too ordinary for our choices to register in any meaningful way. That the world is too large and too indifferent for one person's effort, one person's kindness, one person's daily decision to show up and try to actually make a dent in anything.James understood that feeling from the inside. He spent years paralyzed by depression, unable to act, unable to see any reason why his choices mattered at all. Until one day he made a single defiant decision: his first act of free will would be to believe in free will. He acted as if his actions mattered. And in doing so discovered that they did. That's the mechanism James spent his career documenting. His central insight was that it isn't our feelings that guide our actions but it's our actions that shape our feelings. You don't wait to feel that you matter before you act as if you do. You act as if you do, and the feeling follows. The belief is built by the behaviour, not the other way around.He put it directly in The Principles of Psychology: "We are spinning our own fates, good or evil, and never to be undone. Every smallest stroke of virtue or of vice leaves its never so little scar. Nothing we ever do is, in strict scientific literalness, wiped out." Nothing is wiped out. Every action registers: in you, in the people around you, in the fabric of what you're building, in the person you are becoming one choice at a time. The ripples may be invisible. They are never absent.It does matter. That's not reassurance. That's the conclusion of a life's work.So here's the question: Where in your life are you holding back and waiting to feel certain that what you do matters before you'll fully commit to doing it?Because James isn't asking you to feel it first. He's asking you to act first. The certainty follows the action. It always has.Act as if what you do makes a difference.It does.That's it for today. I'm Andrew McGivern and I'll see you in the next one with another Daily Quote.

Welcome to the Daily Quote, the podcast designed to kickstart your day in a positive way. I'm your host Andrew McGivern and this episode is brought to you by the Great News podcast. Because good news should be heard and the link is in the show notes.Today we return to Epictetus, the Greek Stoic philosopher born into slavery who became one of the most influential thinkers in history. A man who understood, from the most visceral possible experience, the difference between what you can control and what you cannot. From his Discourses, he wrote:"The more we value things outside our control, the less control we have."Read that as the equation it actually is. The more energy, attention, and emotional investment you pour into things that are not in your hands, the less of all three you have available for the things that are.It's a leak. And most of us are leaking constantly.The outcome of the meeting you've already done your best to prepare for. Whether the person you care about responds the way you hope. What the market does with the investment you've already made. How the audience receives the work you've already put out. Whether the weather holds for the event you've already planned. None of it is in your control. But the mind treats all of it as if sustained worry could somehow influence the result and in doing so, drains exactly the energy and attention that could be going toward the things that actually are yours to shape.Epictetus put it plainly elsewhere: "Freedom is the only worthy goal in life. It is won by disregarding things that lie beyond our control." Not ignoring them. Not pretending they don't exist or don't matter. Disregarding them — withdrawing the emotional investment, the anxious attention, the draining value placed on outcomes you cannot determine. What remains when you do that is not emptiness. It's clarity. The things genuinely in your control your effort, your response, your attitude, your choices, the quality of what you bring to this moment suddenly have all the attention they deserve. And those things, properly attended to, are enough to build something real.The Stoics called this the dichotomy of control. If you can control something, there is nothing to worry about. If you cannot control something, there is still nothing to worry about because it will happen as it will, and you can do nothing about it. The worry was never useful. What was useful was already available, your own response, your own effort, your own mind. So here's the question: Where is your attention currently going, toward things in your control, or things outside it?Because the energy is finite. Every unit spent on what you cannot control is a unit unavailable for what you can. And what you can control, right now, today, is more than enough to work with.Withdraw the value from what isn't yours to determine. Put it where it actually belongs.That's it for today. I'm Andrew McGivern — I'll see you in the next one with another Daily Quote.

Welcome to the Daily Quote, the podcast designed to kickstart your day in a positive way. I'm your host, Andrew McGivern and this episode is brought to you by the Great News podcast, because good news should be heard and the link is right here in the show notes.Today's quote has no confirmed original author and it seems that a lot of modern inspiring quotes are unattributed. Somebody must have said it first but there is no documentation. The quote is:"Trust the process, even when it seems like it's not processing."There's a moment that almost everyone building something encounters. You're doing the work. You're showing up consistently. You're following the process you believe in. And nothing appears to be happening. The numbers aren't moving. The results aren't arriving. The gap between effort and outcome feels wider than it should, and the quiet, corrosive voice of doubt starts asking whether the process is actually working at all.That moment is precisely what this quote is written for.Here's what's worth understanding about how processes actually work. Progress is almost never linear. It is almost always invisible before it becomes obvious. The bamboo plant spends its first four years growing an underground root system so extensive that when it finally breaks the surface, it can grow 90 feet in five weeks. For four years with nothing visible. Then everything, seemingly at once. Not because nothing was happening. Because everything was happening underground, where no one could see it.The Philadelphia 76ers basketball team understood this more publicly than most. In 2013 they made the deliberate decision to rebuild, trading away established players, accepting years of losses, accumulating draft picks and developing young talent. From the outside it looked like failure. Season after season of losing records. Fans frustrated. Critics dismissive. The team's response was a phrase that became a cultural slogan far beyond basketball: trust the process. What looked like stagnation was in fact construction, careful, patient, invisible construction. The team that emerged from that process became one of the most formidable in the league.Trusting the process means believing that growth is taking place behind the scenes even when there is no visible movement present. It is the discipline of staying committed to the work when the work isn't yet showing up in the results. And it is perhaps the hardest discipline of all, because the absence of visible progress feels exactly the same as the absence of actual progress. But they are not the same thing. Not even close. The process is processing. Even when, especially when, it seems like it isn't.So here's the question: Where in your life right now are you close to abandoning a process, not because it's wrong, but because the results haven't arrived yet on your schedule?Because the bamboo doesn't break the surface in year two. The team doesn't contend in year one of the rebuild. The work you're putting in today may not show up until a season you can't yet see.Stay in it. The process is processing. Even when it seems like it isn't.That's it for today. I'm Andrew McGivern and I'll see you in the next one with another Daily Quote.