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The Futur with Chris Do
The Futur
Positive Thinking Never Sticks w/ Dr. John Demartini | Ep 455
OCT 14, 202623 MIN
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Description
At twenty-eight, Dr. John Demartini took 300 best-selling books on positive thinking, underlined every positive word, compiled 2,000 index cards, then chanted them 108 times a day for two years while monitoring seven areas of his life four times a day. At the end he ran the numbers. It came out zero. In the second half of his conversation with Chris, he makes the case that negativity is a signal to read, not a defect to delete: hedonic adaptation, moral licensing, why insomnia tracks both resentment and infatuation, and the fifteen unrealistic expectations that produce almost all of it. There is also a 500-page list of questions he watched a prince and princess work through over dinner at the Ritz. If you have been trying to think your way to a one-sided life, this one takes the illusion off you.
Timestamps:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:51) - Why the Mind Goes Negative
(01:16) - Told He Would Never Read
(02:32) - The Father of Positive Thinking Confesses
(05:04) - 300 Books and 2,000 Index Cards
(06:19) - Two Years of Monitoring, Result Zero
(06:45) - Hedonic Adaptation and Moral Licensing
(07:35) - What Negativity Is Actually For
(09:42) - The 15 Reasons We Go Negative
(11:39) - Half Full, Half Empty, or Both at Once
(13:06) - The Ritz, 1991, and 500 Pages of Questions
(15:14) - Quality of Life, Quality of Questions
(18:12) - 9,378 Pages of Journals
(19:52) - Passion Means to Suffer
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