Learning My Own Desire

Women are taught extensively about how to be desired and almost nothing about discovering what or whom we desire. I’m talking about the years I spent trying to enjoy what was wanted from me, fighting to have my no respected and performing sex from a creative brief built around someone else’s pleasure. And the revolutionary question I finally learned to ask: What do I want to say yes to? Content note: This episode includes discussion of sexual assault, coercion and trauma. This episode is the audio edition of part three of Who Does She Think She Is, my wildly personal curriculum on heteronormativity, desire and the sapphic gaze. You can find the substack here.  You can find Erin @iamerinbrown The Sapphic Syllabus More about the podcast CHEEX OFFER LINK use code ERIN Details: no minimum term can be canceled at any time choice between monthly or annual subscription price:  monthly subscription: € 19.99 annual subscription: € 9.90 per month