Good Mums Get Angry Too

What actually makes you a “good mum”? And who the fuck decided the rules? This week I’m joined by Jess from Nurturing Haven. Psychologist, mum of two and proof that you can literally know the parenting theory and STILL lose your shit with your kids. We unpack secure attachment (in normal-person language 😂), gentle vs permissive parenting, mum guilt, emotional regulation, breaking generational patterns and the stuff from our own childhood that suddenly comes flying back when we become parents. We also answer the question every mum secretly wants to know: Am I fucking up my kids when I yell? Spoiler: your kids don’t need a perfect mum. They need you to keep showing up, repairing when things go sideways and trying again. Plus, we talk about finding your village, why mums need support even when they don’t need therapy, and how the hell we’re supposed to teach tiny humans to regulate their emotions when we’re still figuring it out ourselves. Funny, reassuring, a little sweary and one of those chats that makes you go, “Oh thank fuck, it’s not just me.” 🎙️ Welcome to The Loud Mums Club — where we say the quiet part out loud.