The Professor and Heather Anne

Send us Fan Mail We hit record for the first time thinking we’d share a few stories, then realized the real work was learning how to talk about the parts of life we were taught to keep quiet. This season finale recap pulls together what we’ve learned across 24 episodes, 16 guests, and a whole lot of growth, including how we went from nervous and private to more honest and comfortable sharing our real midlife journey. We revisit the biggest themes our listeners connected with: trauma recovery...

Send us Fan Mail Walking into a courthouse can feel like walking back into the worst day of your life. Recording on location at the Case Family Safety Center in Tulsa, we talk about what survivors actually need when they’re trying to get safe and why the “go here, then go there” system fails people who are already exhausted, afraid, and overwhelmed. Heather Anne shares parts of her own history as a domestic violence survivor and why this topic can’t stay behind closed doors. Then we’re joine...

Send us Fan Mail Secrets thrive in silence; hope grows where people show up. We open up about childhood trauma, domestic violence, and human trafficking—not to dwell on harm, but to show how kids and families rebuild with the right web of support. Heather shares the moments that kept her afloat as a teen—coaches who noticed, teachers who checked in, friends’ parents who asked “Are you okay?”—and why that steady care still matters. Then we welcome Karen Smith, director with the Oklahoma Coalit...

Send us Fan Mail What if your daily routine could calm an overactive stress system and open the door to a healthier, happier life? We sit down with Dr. Jennifer Hayes-Grudo to unpack ACEs—the ten Adverse Childhood Experiences that predict health risks—and then turn toward PACEs, the Protective and Compensatory Experiences that help the brain and body recover. Heather shares her raw story of loss, secrecy, and hypervigilance, and how mentors, marching band, and sports became lifelines long bef...

Send us Fan Mail Friendship can change your health, your happiness, and even how long you live—so why do we treat it like an afterthought? We sit down with UCLA psychologist Dr. Jamie Krems, co-founder of the UCLA Center for Friendship Research, to unpack what truly makes a friend, why betrayal cuts so deep, and how small acts can rebuild trust and closeness at any age. Jamie takes us around the world to show how cultures define friendship, then brings it home with an evolutionary lens: frie...