TRLP 079: Letting Our Identity Inform Our Activity

Got questions or comments? Text them to me! Part four of the "Strength in the Cracks" series — exploring vulnerability in leadership as a place of God's power, not human weakness. Episode Summary If a bad week can quietly shrink your sense of who you are, whose identity are you actually operating from? In this episode, Paul turns the corner from diagnosis to formation, unpacking the principle "identity informs activity" — using Jesus's baptism and wilderness temptation to show what it looks like to lead from a settled, beloved identity instead of a performed one, and why that shift is what actually makes vulnerability possible. What We Cover Why most of us let activity build our identity, instead of the other way around Jesus's baptism — belovedness declared before any ministry activity happens How the wilderness temptations are really one temptation: perform your way into an identity instead of resting in one already given Why you can't afford to be vulnerable if your identity depends on approval of your performance A practical shift: naming "I'm not walking in here to become beloved, I'm walking in here beloved" before a hard moment Scripture Referenced Matthew 3:17 (and parallels) — "This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased" Matthew 4:1-11 — The wilderness temptations following Jesus's baptism The Challenge Before walking into something that usually makes you perform — a hard conversation, a sermon, a dreaded meeting — pause and remind yourself: "I'm not walking in here to become beloved. I'm walking in here beloved. Whatever happens in this room doesn't get to decide that." Quotable Moments "If your sense of being a good leader only exists on the other side of performance, you will never stop performing." "Vulnerability stops being a threat. It's just honesty. It's just what a settled person sounds like when they talk." "Identity first. Activity second. Always in that order." About the Series Strength in the Cracks is a mini-series exploring how pastors and leaders can experience vulnerability not as a liability to manage, but as a place where God's power shows up most clearly — drawn from Paul's ongoing D.Min. research in Spiritual Formation and Relational Neuroscience. ⬇️  ⬇️  ⬇️  ⬇️  ⬇️ Thanks for listening to The Reluctant Leader Podcast with Paul Jenkins! Find me on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram, and be sure to read the stuff I'm writing on my blog. Rather watch the video? Head over to The Reluctant Leader Podcast on my YouTube channel.