The Self-Hype Podcast

If you spent the entire new season of Love Is Blind screaming at your television, you are not alone. This week, Eli returns to the mic for a highly anticipated, wildly unfiltered deep dive into the latest mess of the pods. He breaks down why this season was simultaneously boring and incredibly telling, exposing the reality that "love" isn't blind—insecurity, desperation, and infatuation are. Eli roasts the "half-cooked chicken" maturity levels of the cast, explains why a guy who drops the F-bomb during a minor disagreement is showing you his true colors, and why staying out late kissing a stranger's bicep at your bachelorette party is not "wifey energy." Tune in for a hilarious, insightful masterclass on why you can't microwave a relationship, how to spot an F-boy in disguise, and why you need to see how a man handles conflict before you say "I do." Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE Healthly Love Club JOIN HERE Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez All rights reserved. ©2026 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

If you’ve ever wanted to literally paint a picture of your trauma and stare it right in the face, this episode is for you. Eli brings on viral artist Shannon Lane, who took the internet by storm by literally painting the "demons" of depression and anxiety. Shannon gets incredibly raw about turning to a paintbrush when she couldn’t afford expensive therapy, how her viral "You Are Not Alone" project became a digital safe haven for thousands of grieving people, and why avoiding your dark feelings only makes them stronger. Tune in for a deeply emotional, hilarious, and inspiring conversation on why you need to stop outrunning your anxiety, how to set strict boundaries as an empath, and why giving yourself permission to make "rubbish" art might actually save your mental health. About the Guest: Shannon Lane is a UK-based artist and digital creator known for her profoundly moving mental health paintings. After using art to navigate her own severe depression and anxiety, Shannon went massively viral for her "You Are Not Alone" project—a powerful visual representation of community solidarity against the "demons" of mental illness. She uses her growing platform to destigmatize mental health, share her journey with ADHD and anxiety, and encourage others to find healing through creative expression. Follow Shannon on Instagram: @shannonroselane Learn More About Shannon: shannonindreamland.com Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE Healthly Love Club JOIN HERE Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez All rights reserved. ©2026 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

Are you making a relationship your ultimate life goal just so a man can finally validate your existence? Eli is here to violently dismantle that mindset. Stepping away from the usual dating mechanics, Eli unpacks the heavy, terrifying reality of finding your actual life purpose. He shares his own journey of moving to Chicago, slowing down, and mourning the fact that he missed out on long-term love in his 20s because he was too busy chasing the dopamine high of industry success. This episode is the ultimate wake-up call to stop outsourcing your self-esteem, stop dating your fear of being alone, and realize you are already enough. Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE Healthly Love Club JOIN HERE Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez All rights reserved. ©2026 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

If Shakira and Beyoncé can get cheated on, absolutely nobody is safe. In this highly requested return episode, Eli sits down with badass divorce attorney Michele Locke to rip the glamorous filter off of celebrity marriages. They go totally unfiltered on the delusions of the Hollywood elite—from J.Lo’s endless lack of accountability to Tom Brady treating his supermodel wife like an off-season hobby. Michele drops some heavy truths about the damage of parental alienation in the Brangelina split and explains exactly why narcissists flock to the limelight. Tune in for a wildly entertaining masterclass on why celebrity relationship drama is exactly like regular toxic dating, just with a bigger yacht and a PR team. About the Guest: Michele Locke is a seasoned family law and divorce attorney, digital creator, and the host of the Love, Lust, Law podcast. With years of experience battling it out in the courtroom, Michele brings a sharp legal and psychological perspective to modern dating, marriage, and messy high-profile breakups. When she isn't breaking down the rampant personality disorders of Hollywood's elite, she’s empowering everyday people to navigate the realities of love and the legal system. Follow Michele: @attorneymichelelocke Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE Healthly Love Club JOIN HERE Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez All rights reserved. ©2026 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

Grab your notebook ya’ll. In this highly requested community Q&A episode, Eli battles through a nasty sinus infection to deliver the ultimate intervention for your anxious attachment. He holds nothing back as he roasts the delusion of waiting for a guy who literally told you he belongs to the streets, breaks down why you need to stop mistaking a panic attack for "the spark," and explains why healthy love feels more like Baked Lays than Flamin' Hot Cheetos. If you’re constantly spiraling over unreturned texts, missing a toxic ex just because you're lonely, or wondering why you keep attracting avoidants, this episode is your wake-up call to stop dating your own fear. Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE Healthly Love Club JOIN HERE Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez All rights reserved. ©2026 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice