The Self-Hype Podcast

Are you making a relationship your ultimate life goal just so a man can finally validate your existence? Eli is here to violently dismantle that mindset. Stepping away from the usual dating mechanics, Eli unpacks the heavy, terrifying reality of finding your actual life purpose. He shares his own journey of moving to Chicago, slowing down, and mourning the fact that he missed out on long-term love in his 20s because he was too busy chasing the dopamine high of industry success. This episode is the ultimate wake-up call to stop outsourcing your self-esteem, stop dating your fear of being alone, and realize you are already enough. Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE Healthly Love Club JOIN HERE Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez All rights reserved. ©2026 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

If Shakira and Beyoncé can get cheated on, absolutely nobody is safe. In this highly requested return episode, Eli sits down with badass divorce attorney Michele Locke to rip the glamorous filter off of celebrity marriages. They go totally unfiltered on the delusions of the Hollywood elite—from J.Lo’s endless lack of accountability to Tom Brady treating his supermodel wife like an off-season hobby. Michele drops some heavy truths about the damage of parental alienation in the Brangelina split and explains exactly why narcissists flock to the limelight. Tune in for a wildly entertaining masterclass on why celebrity relationship drama is exactly like regular toxic dating, just with a bigger yacht and a PR team. About the Guest: Michele Locke is a seasoned family law and divorce attorney, digital creator, and the host of the Love, Lust, Law podcast. With years of experience battling it out in the courtroom, Michele brings a sharp legal and psychological perspective to modern dating, marriage, and messy high-profile breakups. When she isn't breaking down the rampant personality disorders of Hollywood's elite, she’s empowering everyday people to navigate the realities of love and the legal system. Follow Michele: @attorneymichelelocke Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE Healthly Love Club JOIN HERE Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez All rights reserved. ©2026 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

Grab your notebook ya’ll. In this highly requested community Q&A episode, Eli battles through a nasty sinus infection to deliver the ultimate intervention for your anxious attachment. He holds nothing back as he roasts the delusion of waiting for a guy who literally told you he belongs to the streets, breaks down why you need to stop mistaking a panic attack for "the spark," and explains why healthy love feels more like Baked Lays than Flamin' Hot Cheetos. If you’re constantly spiraling over unreturned texts, missing a toxic ex just because you're lonely, or wondering why you keep attracting avoidants, this episode is your wake-up call to stop dating your own fear. Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE Healthly Love Club JOIN HERE Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez All rights reserved. ©2026 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

Are you exhausted by Instagram trainers promising you'll drop 30 pounds in 30 days if you just "grind harder"? In this unfiltered guest episode, Eli sits down with his own personal trainer, Ambrose, to expose the absolute BS of the modern fitness industry. Ambrose breaks down why he walked away from a six-figure tech job at Meta to become a trainer who actually gives a damn about your mental health. They dive deep into the real reasons you aren't seeing results—unpacking how stress, binge eating, and a society designed to keep you sedentary are secretly sabotaging your goals. From redefining what it means to track your habits to realizing why your late-night Uber Eats habit is just a coping mechanism for your anxiety, this episode is a massive reality check. Get ready to stop beating yourself up over the scale and finally learn the mental shifts required to build a body (and a life) you actually love. About the Guest: Ambrose is an online fitness coach, athlete, and the founder of Body by Ambrose. After leaving behind a six-figure corporate career in tech (including a stint at Meta) and leveraging his background as a forensic accountant, Ambrose pivoted to the fitness industry to relentlessly call out its BS. He specializes in helping everyday people—especially women—achieve massive physical and mental transformations by focusing on habit-tracking, stress management, and realistic performance goals rather than toxic diet culture. Get 15% Off All Ambrose Coaching Services w/ Promo Code SelfHype15 Follow And Learn More: @bodybyambrose // https://bio.to/bodybyambrose Join My Coaching Membership: JOIN HERE Healthly Love Club: JOIN HERE Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez All rights reserved. ©2026 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice

In this highly requested solo episode, Eli takes a hilarious, unfiltered deep dive into why romantic comedies are secretly ruining our dating lives. Calling out everything from Notting Hill to cheesy Hallmark Christmas movies, Eli breaks down why we are all addicted to the "spark" and delusional fairy tales. He roasts your favorite cinematic heroines for emotionally cheating on their perfectly fine, hardworking fiancés just to run off with some guy who bakes gingerbread in a small town. Eli unpacks the bizarre lack of actual communication in these films, why "big romantic gestures" are usually just massive red flags for selfish behavior, and why real, sustainable love is about building a safe support system, not chasing a manufactured high. Get ready to laugh, feel incredibly called out, and finally unlearn the toxic relationship porn that Hollywood sold you. Join My Coaching Membership Below? JOIN HERE Healthly Love Club JOIN HERE Want A Free Call To Learn About My 8-Week Healing Bootcamp? SCHEDULE HERE Follow The Pod And Eli: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@EliVazquez All rights reserved. ©2026 SELF-HYPE LLC #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #relationships #relationshipadvice