124. Stop Volunteering

Are you volunteering because you genuinely want to help, or because you feel guilty saying no? Volunteering is supposed to be an act of generosity, but what happens when saying yes leaves you exhausted, frustrated, and unable to contribute your best? In episode 124 of the Working Genius, Pat Lencioni and Cody Thompson explain why volunteering out of guilt or obligation can do more harm than good and how understanding your Working Genius can help you serve others more effectively. From churches and schools to workplaces and retirement, they challenge you to rethink generosity, embrace your natural talents, and find opportunities that energize you while making a meaningful difference. Topics explored in this episode: (00:00) Why You Should Stop Volunteering Pat explains why volunteering should be guided by your natural gifts rather than guilt, obligation, or the desire for approval. The hosts distinguish genuine volunteering from everyday responsibilities and introduce the idea of serving others through your Working Genius. (04:19) Finding the Right Volunteer Opportunities Cody and Pat share personal examples of volunteer activities that energize them versus responsibilities that leave them frustrated. They discuss why saying no to the wrong opportunities can be a gift to others and how people with the Genius of Enablement may approach volunteering differently. (09:11) How Working Genius Prevents Volunteer Burnout Pat suggests that churches and schools use Working Genius to identify people's strengths and match them with meaningful volunteer opportunities. Cody explains how better volunteer placement can reduce burnout, improve retention, and help people feel genuinely known and appreciated. (13:45) Stop Sacrificing Your Talents The hosts challenge traditional assumptions about volunteering and explore why organizations should leverage people's natural abilities rather than simply fill positions. Cody and Pat share examples of how offering their expertise in the right setting allows them to make a greater contribution. (18:42) Rethinking Retirement and Generosity Pat challenges the idea that retirement means abandoning meaningful work and encourages people to continue using the talents they love. The hosts conclude by encouraging listeners and organizations to be proactive about generosity, identify their Working Geniuses, and create opportunities that benefit everyone. This episode of The Working Genius Podcast with Patrick Lencioni is brought to you by The Table Group: www.tablegroup.com. We teach leaders how to make work more effective and less dysfunctional. We also help their employees be more fulfilled and less miserable. The Six Types of Working Genius model helps you discover your natural gifts and thrive in your work and life. When you’re able to better understand the types of work that bring you more energy and fulfillment and avoid work that leads to frustration and failure, you can be more self-aware, more productive, and more successful. Take the assessment today to discover your natural gifts and thrive at work: https://workinggenius.me/about Subscribe for more content from Patrick Lencioni @PatrickLencioniOfficial Stay Connected with Patrick Lencioni LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrick-lencioni-orghealth Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/patricklencioniofficial TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@patricklencioniofficial X: https://x.com/patricklencioni The Working Genius Podcast with Patrick Lencioni Apple: https://workinggenius.me/apple Spotify: https://workinggenius.me/sptfy YouTube: https://workinggenius.me/wgyt Be sure to check out our other podcast, At The Table with Patrick Lencioni, on Apple Podcasts (https://tablegroup.me/apple), Spotify (https://tablegroup.me/sptfy), and YouTube (https://tablegroup.me/youtube). Let us know your feedback via [email protected]. This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co.