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What Your Therapist Thinks

Felicia Keller Boyle & Kristie Plantinga

How Do I Overcome Performance Anxiety? The Fear Behind Performance

NOV 19, 202565 MIN
What Your Therapist Thinks

How Do I Overcome Performance Anxiety? The Fear Behind Performance

NOV 19, 202565 MIN

Description

Shelly Qualter, an expert counselor, joins Kristie and Felicia to talk everything on performance anxiety. Drawing from Shelly’s experience as an expert counselor, they break down performance anxiety as a fear-based emotion arising from uncertainty, feeling threatened, or being out of control.

Some takeaways:

  • The difference between helpful "nervous energy" and debilitating panic
  • How externalizing anxiety (like giving it a name) fosters control and self-compassion
  • Distinguishing between fact-based worry and baseless "what if" worries

For sponsorships, please reach out to [email protected]Be the first to join the upcoming WYTT Substack

Follow Felicia on Instagram

Follow WYTT on Instagram

Connect with Shelly

Follow Shelly on Instagram

*Hosts: Kristie Plantinga and Felicia Keller Boyle

*Watch full episodes on YouTube: What Your Therapist Thinks

*Connect with us on Instagram: @wyttpodcast

*Brought to you by BestTherapists.com

*Produced by PodVision.

If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review, or share it with a friend who might need it!

This podcast is for entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a licensed therapist or call your local crisis line for support.