Radical Learning Talks

Have you ever known something needed to change, but found yourself waiting until you felt less afraid? Whether it's leaving school behind, changing careers, moving across the world, or simply choosing a different way of parenting, many of the biggest decisions we make ask us to step into the unknown before we know how things will turn out. In this 100th episode of Radical Learning Talks, we reflect on the role courage has played in our own lives. We explore why fear isn't always a warning sign, how courage grows through practice rather than certainty, and why the life we're longing for often begins just beyond the edge of what feels comfortable. We explore: • Why courage and fear always seem to arrive together • How our relationship with the unknown changes over time • Why waiting until you feel "ready" often keeps us stuck • The connection between courage, dreaming and personal growth • How choosing a different path transforms not only us, but the people around us Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka → Follow us on Instagram and come hang out with us between episodes. → Check out our website and explore more of our work, resources, and support. Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list

Have you ever found yourself questioning the school system, only to worry about what your family, friends or the teachers in your life might think? For many parents, stepping away from conventional education isn't just about making different choices for their own children. It also changes how they see the world around them. Conversations about school can suddenly feel loaded, especially when the people we love have dedicated their lives to teaching or hold very different beliefs about education. In this episode, we examine how to question educational systems without losing empathy for the people within them. We talk about the difference between criticizing a system and criticizing the humans working inside it, why many of us become more binary in our thinking at the beginning of our deschooling journey, and how curiosity and relationship can create more meaningful conversations than trying to convince others. We explore: • Why conversations about school often become deeply personal • The difference between criticizing systems and criticizing people • Why empathy matters when discussing education • How to navigate family relationships when your views on schooling differ • Supporting children to make their own educational choices—even if that includes school Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka → Follow us on Instagram and come hang out with us between episodes. → Check out our website and explore more of our work, resources, and support. Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list

Have you ever imagined who your child might become? Most parents do. We picture their future, notice their potential, hope they'll use their gifts well, and quietly carry dreams for the life we want them to have. But what happens when those dreams begin to shape how we relate to the child standing in front of us? In this episode, we look at one of the most subtle forms of control in parenting: our expectations. We talk about the difference between modelling our values and moulding our children, why fear for the future can make us project our hopes onto them, and how unconditional love asks us to see our children for who they already are—not who we hope they'll become. This conversation is an invitation to notice the expectations we all carry, not with guilt, but with curiosity. In this episode we explore: • Why even positive expectations can limit a child's freedom • The difference between modelling values and moulding children • How fear for the future shapes our parenting • Why unconditional love means making space for your child's own path • Supporting children without attaching them to outcomes Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka → Follow us on Instagram and come hang out with us between episodes. → Check out our website and explore more of our work, resources, and support. Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list

What if the biggest obstacle to creating a more compassionate world isn't a lack of knowledge—but the wounds we haven't yet healed? Whether we're rethinking education, parenting, activism or the systems we live within, it's easy to focus on changing what's around us. But what if lasting change also asks us to look inward? In this conversation with our dear friend Chemay Morales-James from My Reflection Matters Village, we explore the relationship between healing, liberation and self-directed living. Together, we unpack why unschooling often becomes a gateway to questioning much more than school, how oppressive systems can quietly recreate themselves even inside liberation movements, and why community, intuition and inner work are essential if we want to build something genuinely different. This episode also takes an unexpected turn as we share a live Sense Thinking exercise exploring fear, intuition and the wisdom of the body—a beautiful glimpse into one of the practices that has deeply influenced our own work. In this episode we explore: • Why healing is an essential part of liberation • How oppressive systems recreate themselves when we don't examine our own patterns • The connection between unschooling, decolonization and personal transformation • Why intuition, community and the body matter as much as knowledge • A live Sense Thinking process exploring fear and the unknown Learn more about Chemay’s land project in Puerto Rico Learn about SenseThinking w/ Aitabé Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka → Follow us on Instagram and come hang out with us between episodes. → Check out our website and explore more of our work, resources, and support. Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list

"Just trust your child." It's advice many parents hear when they begin questioning conventional education or exploring self-directed learning—but what if trust doesn't come naturally? What if your own experiences have taught you the opposite? In this episode, we answer a beautiful question from one of our listeners: How do you actually learn to trust? Beyond asking for reassurance from friends or reminding yourself to "stay calm," what helps trust become something you can genuinely feel? We share personal stories from our own parenting journeys and explore how trust isn't something you either have or don't have—it's something you gradually build through experience. We talk about fear, surrender, intuition, nature, and the small everyday moments that slowly reshape how we relate to our children—and to ourselves. In this episode we explore: • Why trusting your child is often harder than it sounds • How fear quietly shapes our parenting decisions • Why trust grows through practice, not certainty • The role of nature, intuition and slowing down • How surrender and observation can transform your relationship with your child • The difference between trusting your child and being negligent Wondering what keeps shaping your reactions when parenting gets hard? → Discover Your Parenting Archetype Have a parenting, homeschooling, or unschooling question? Send it to us and we may answer it in an upcoming newsletter: → Dear Sari & Becka → Follow us on Instagram and come hang out with us between episodes. → Check out our website and explore more of our work, resources, and support. Radical Learning Talks was named the #2 Democratic Education Podcast to Listen to in 2026 by FeedSpot. See the full list