#143: Out of Nowhere, Everything Starts Working in Your Favor

What if the assumptions you make every day are the very reason you're holding yourself back from the love, confidence, success, and opportunities you want?   We've all heard what happens when you assume, right? Well, I'm calling BS on that one. Some assumptions can actually make your life a whole lot better. And the best part? You get to choose them.   In this episode of Ready for Love, Hilary Silver shares seven assumptions she lives by that have changed everything from her relationships to her business. From giving people the benefit of the doubt to expecting a yes before you've even asked, these simple shifts can help you stop second-guessing yourself, speak your mind, and actually get more of what you want.   How many times have you decided the answer is no before you've even opened your mouth? Come on, ladies. You're rejecting yourself before anyone else gets the chance! Hilary shares why it's time to stop playing small and start assuming things will work out in your favor. Even when life goes sideways. Because when you know you'll figure it out, what are you so afraid of?   Episode Highlights: Why assuming the best about people saves you unnecessary drama How people-pleasing makes you less trustworthy, not more likable Why another woman's success isn't taking anything away from yours The surprising power of assuming the answer is yes Why trusting yourself beats having a perfect plan   Episode Breakdown: 00:00 How Positive Assumptions Improve Relationships 03:45 Stop People-Pleasing and Build Self-Confidence 07:15 Abundance Mindset: Overcome Scarcity and Comparison 09:15 Assume the Yes: Start Asking for What You Want 11:50 Build Self-Trust and Overcome Fear 13:20 Why Everything Works Out in Your Favor ✨ I’m Hilary Silver, LCSW, former psychotherapist turned master coach and founder of Ready for Love. I help high-achieving women show up in love as confidently as they do in their careers.   💡 Through this podcast, I share my WOMAN-centered, SELF-centered approach—time-tested methods that blend psychology, brain science, relationship skills, and no-BS dating advice.   🎙️ Since 2017, we’ve helped over 10,000 women with a 98% success rate, making Ready for Love the #1 program in the world for women who’ve tried everything else.   ✨ Ready to stop repeating the same patterns and finally create the love you deserve?    🎯 Watch my free masterclass to learn the proven 4-step Ready for Love Method: https://readyforloveinc.com/masterclass   💬 Apply for a free Love Breakthrough Call with my team: https://readyforloveinc.com/apply   Hilary’s Substack: https://readyforlove.substack.com/podcast Subscribe for additional insights and reflections from the podcast   📓 Ready for More Journal + Coaching Membership: https://start.readyforloveinc.com/more