<p>In this episode, Kirby shares a deceptively simple “secret” that changes everything: <strong>pause before you react</strong>. Most messes aren’t caused by hard circumstances, they’re caused by <strong>fast reactions</strong>. The pause helps you respond with wisdom instead of panic.</p><p><strong>Key talking points</strong></p><ul><li><p>The “don’t freak out” principle (aka: the power of pausing)</p></li><li><p>Why quick reactions often create bigger problems than the original moment</p></li><li><p>The thermostat vs. thermometer metaphor: <strong>set</strong> the tone, don’t just <strong>reflect</strong> it</p></li><li><p>How pausing can prevent regret (words, emails, impulsive decisions)</p></li></ul><p><strong>Sharpen Question of the Day</strong></p><ul><li><p><em>Where in your life do you need to pause instead of panicking or reacting?</em></p></li></ul>