<description>&lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Have you ever sat across from someone on a first date and wondered, "Why does this feel so awkward? Why isn't there any chemistry?" Are you stuck in your head, anxious about what to say and worried if you're coming across as interesting or fun?  In Episode 423 of The Charisma Quotient, "ICYMI: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy" Kimmy dives deep into these common dating dilemmas and explores how you can take control of your energy, spark chemistry, and break free from repetitive, boring conversations.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;In this episode, welcomes Kay, who's struggled to move past dry, fact-based interactions on dating apps and in person. Together, they unpack what keeps conversation stuck at surface level, why being "in your head" creates barriers, and how shifting from reactive to proactive – bringing emotional context and playfulness – can transform your dating experience. Kimmy coaches Kay to open up, share feelings, and weave personal stories into her chats, making connections more lively and authentic. You'll walk away with actionable strategies for loosening up and injecting true connection into any date, even if you think your interests are a little offbeat!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;You'll hear:&lt;/p&gt; &lt;ul&gt; &lt;li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr" role="presentation"&gt;Why first dates often feel boring—even with "nice" people&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr" role="presentation"&gt;How your mindset and body language influence date chemistry&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr" role="presentation"&gt;The difference between fact-based and emotionally connected conversations&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr" role="presentation"&gt;Practical exercises to help you move from reactive to proactive dating&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr" role="presentation"&gt;How to be less "in your head" and more present on dates&lt;/p&gt; &lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ul&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;If you've been feeling discouraged about dating — burned out by apps, not feeling the connection with your dates or awkward small talk, sign up for Kimmy's Co-ed Love Is Blind Dating Game Virtual Experience — so you can build connection before chemistry and confidence before commitment.  Think: old school dating game meets Love is Blind series! This is a virtual experience that is guaranteed to change YOUR dating game.  Go to &lt;a href= "http://www.stophatingdating.com"&gt;www.stophatingdating.com&lt;/a&gt; for more information and to register.  Spaces are limited!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;************************************************⁣&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;************************************************⁣&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Website:  &lt;a href= "https://kimmyseltzer.com/%E2%81%A3"&gt;https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Chat: &lt;a href= "https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/"&gt;https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Instagram: &lt;a href= "https://www.instagram.com/kimmyseltzer/"&gt;@kimmyseltzer&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Twitter: &lt;a href= "https://x.com/kimmyseltzer"&gt;@kimmyseltzer&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  &lt;a href= "https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers"&gt;https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p dir="ltr"&gt;Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are &lt;a href="http://www.flirtover40.com"&gt;www.flirtover40.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>

Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Kimmy Seltzer

ICYMI: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy

DEC 5, 202531 MIN
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

ICYMI: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy

DEC 5, 202531 MIN

Description

Have you ever sat across from someone on a first date and wondered, "Why does this feel so awkward? Why isn't there any chemistry?" Are you stuck in your head, anxious about what to say and worried if you're coming across as interesting or fun? In Episode 423 of The Charisma Quotient, "ICYMI: Creating Conversation and Chemistry: Coaching with Kimmy" Kimmy dives deep into these common dating dilemmas and explores how you can take control of your energy, spark chemistry, and break free from repetitive, boring conversations.

In this episode, welcomes Kay, who's struggled to move past dry, fact-based interactions on dating apps and in person. Together, they unpack what keeps conversation stuck at surface level, why being "in your head" creates barriers, and how shifting from reactive to proactive – bringing emotional context and playfulness – can transform your dating experience. Kimmy coaches Kay to open up, share feelings, and weave personal stories into her chats, making connections more lively and authentic. You'll walk away with actionable strategies for loosening up and injecting true connection into any date, even if you think your interests are a little offbeat!

You'll hear:

  • Why first dates often feel boring—even with "nice" people

  • How your mindset and body language influence date chemistry

  • The difference between fact-based and emotionally connected conversations

  • Practical exercises to help you move from reactive to proactive dating

  • How to be less "in your head" and more present on dates

If you've been feeling discouraged about dating — burned out by apps, not feeling the connection with your dates or awkward small talk, sign up for Kimmy's Co-ed Love Is Blind Dating Game Virtual Experience — so you can build connection before chemistry and confidence before commitment. Think: old school dating game meets Love is Blind series! This is a virtual experience that is guaranteed to change YOUR dating game. Go to www.stophatingdating.com for more information and to register. Spaces are limited!

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com