Tony talks with musician Ian McConnell. Ian kicks off his “Primary Source” tour this Thursday, August 15th, in Dallas, TX, and will visit 25 more spots around the country (tickets for Ian’s “Primary Source” tour can be purchased through his website https://www.ianmcconnellmusic.com). Ian opens up about his journey in the music industry, touring experiences, and personal struggles. They discuss everything from car troubles and pandemic life to faith deconstruction and mental health therapy. Ian shares his approach to writing meaningful songs that resonate with listeners, his views on human purpose, and the emotional highs and lows of social media success. The episode offers a deep dive into Ian's creative process and the challenges of maintaining authenticity and self-care in a demanding industry. Tune in for an introspective and engaging conversation on living a good life, mental health, and the power of music. You can find Ian on all popular social media platforms. 

00:00 Introduction and Casual Conversation

00:38 Desert Life and Moving to Phoenix

01:20 Touring Experiences and Plans

02:59 Existential Crisis and Songwriting

04:09 Faith Deconstruction and Personal Growth

06:45 The Pursuit of Happiness and Validation

15:41 Nashville and Country Music Journey

24:09 Pandemic Challenges and TikTok Success

25:35 Diving into Music and Social Media

26:30 Navigating Roommate Tensions and Relationships

27:26 Exploring Emotional Immaturity and People-Pleasing

30:50 The Rush of Social Media Fame

31:40 Creating Music Independently

34:02 Reflecting on Mental Health and Therapy

35:23 Releasing Music Like a TV Show

37:34 Analyzing Lyrics and Personal Experiences

45:56 The Joy and Nerves of Performing Live

46:57 Wrapping Up and Future Plans

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