I Unlearned Bias to Truly Love My LGBTQ+ Child

MAY 20, 202659 MIN
Grief and Rebirth: Finding the Joy in Life

I Unlearned Bias to Truly Love My LGBTQ+ Child

MAY 20, 202659 MIN

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<p><span style="color: rgb(13, 13, 13);">How do you navigate the unexpected when your child comes out as LGBTQ+, which completely redefines your understanding of their world? </span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">For </span><a href="https://www.morehumanmorekind.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Heather Hester</a><span style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">, the journey began in 2017 when her 16-year-old son came out as gay. What followed was a raw, transformative period marked by intense mental health struggles and substance use issues, forcing Heather to confront and unlearn bias inherited from her conservative, evangelical background.</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">This is more than a coming-out story—it’s an urgent call to action for every parent and ally quietly searching for a shame-free space to navigate similar experiences.</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">In this vital conversation, we sit down with Heather Hester—author of </span><a href="https://amzn.to/4dFTzP8" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(17, 85, 204);"><em>Parenting with Pride: Unlearn Bias and Embrace, Empower and Love Your LGBTQ+ Teen</em></a><span style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">—to explore her family’s evolution and how grief transformed into healing and rebirth. </span></p><p><br></p><p><strong style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL HEAR ABOUT THINGS LIKE:</strong></p><ul><li><span style="background-color: transparent;">The essential difference between acknowledging and embracing a new reality.</span></li><li><span style="background-color: transparent;">The profound ways grief can surface in parenting, and how to work through its non-linear layers.</span></li><li><span style="background-color: transparent;">The four transformations (Embrace, Educate/Unlearn, Empower, and Love) that purposefully guide parents toward fully supporting and loving their LGBTQ+ child.</span></li><li><span style="background-color: transparent;">How to let go of fear and choose to lead with humanity, becoming a catalyst for change in your own community.</span></li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>WATCH ON YOUTUBE: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xt292w1bVlY&amp;list=PL7judgDzhkAWmfyB5r5WgFD6ahombBvoh" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xt292w1bVlY&amp;list=PL7judgDzhkAWmfyB5r5WgFD6ahombBvoh</a></p><p><br></p><p><span style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Learn how her family became freer and more fun after removing the constraints of who they "should be," proving that when you commit to healing, joy follows.</span></p><p><br></p><p>🏳️‍🌈<span style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> Grab your copy of Parenting with Pride: Unlearn Bias and Embrace, Empower, and Love Your LGBTQ+ Teen—available now on Amazon or</span><a href="http://bookshop.org" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="http://bookshop.org" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(17, 85, 204);">Bookshop.org</a><span style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> and start building a more supportive, affirming relationship with your teen today.</span><a href="http://bookshop.org" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">&nbsp;</a></p><p><span style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Bookshop.org:</span><a href="https://bookshop.org/a/93249/9781641709125" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="https://bookshop.org/a/93249/9781641709125" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(17, 85, 204);">https://bookshop.org/a/93249/9781641709125</a></p><p><span style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">Amazon:</span><a href="https://amzn.to/4dFTzP8" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="https://amzn.to/4dFTzP8" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(17, 85, 204);">https://amzn.to/4dFTzP8</a></p><p><br></p><p>Join Heather's Substack for stories, reflection, and practical insight, and explore what it means to become more human and more kind in our relationships, our families, and our communities.: <a href="https://heatherhester.substack.com/about" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); 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