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Good Moms Bad Choices

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The Mother Wound Feat. Slumflower

MAR 12, 202592 MIN
Good Moms Bad Choices

The Mother Wound Feat. Slumflower

MAR 12, 202592 MIN

Description

"Every woman has a season of dumb bitch-ness. But don’t worry, you too can heal."

In today’s episode of Good Moms Bad Choices, we are joined by the Sunday Times #1 Bestselling author and host of the Slumflower Hour podcast, Slumflower. The ladies chat about financial feminism, growing up with mama trauma, and owning self pleasure. 

 

What you can expect to hear in this episode:

  • Taxing men, voicing your needs, and life as a dominatrix (7:00) 
  • Want Him vs Need Him: Male utility and what it means to be a provider (19:00) 
  • Slumflower recounts her experience growing up Nigerian and the impact of strict parenting on her identity (28:00) 
  • Female friendships and how cutting off her mother increased her confidence (48:00)
  • Daddy issues/ Mommy issues: The ladies share perspectives on forming an identity outside of parents (1:12:00)
  • Monogamy, men, masturbation (1:17:00)

Watch This episode & more on YouTube! 

 

Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases.

 

Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! || Submit your questions

 

Connect With Us:

@GoodMoms_BadChoices

@TheGoodVibeRetreat

@Good.GoodMedia

@WatchErica

@Milah_Mapp

 

Join us this summer in paradise

With your lover at our Couples Retreat June 14-20, 2025

Code: Pleasure

or at

The Good Vibe Rest+Vibe Retreat in Costa Rica 

July 31 - August 5

August 8 - August 13 

 

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