<description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;Weddings are supposed to be about love, commitment, and building a life together…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;So why do they leave so many couples broke, stressed, and in debt before the marriage even begins?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;In today’s episode, we break down the real truth behind modern weddings — how the industry was engineered to drain your pockets, how marketing rewired our culture, and why most couples are starting their marriage with a financial time bomb.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you’re planning a wedding…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;If you’ve ever felt pressured to “show out”…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;Or if you simply want to build a stable future with the person you love…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;This episode is the reality check you need.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;In this episode we cover:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;How weddings became a $70 billion financial trap&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why “tradition” is really just marketing you didn’t know you believed&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;The diamond ring scam that changed the world&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;How the wedding tax rips off young couples&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;Why 67% of couples go into debt before the honeymoon&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;The $45,000 mistake couples pay off for years&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;How debt silently destroys love, trust, and stability&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;What a financially smart wedding actually looks like&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;Scripts to tell your family “we’re doing it our way”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;How to build a marriage, not a moment&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;This is more than an episode — it’s a blueprint for any couple who wants peace instead of pressure, stability instead of flexing, and real love instead of a six-hour performance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Our Sponsors:&lt;br/&gt;* Check out ClickUp and use my code SOCIALPROOF for a great deal: https://www.clickup.com&lt;br/&gt;* Check out Incogni: https://incogni.com/socialproof&lt;br/&gt;* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/SOCIALPROOF&lt;br/&gt;* Check out NordProtect: https://nordprotect.com/socialproof&lt;br/&gt;* Check out Northwest Registered Agent and use my code socialprooffree for a great deal: https://northwestregisteredagent.com&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Advertising Inquiries: &lt;a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'&gt;https://redcircle.com/brands&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Privacy &amp; Opt-Out: &lt;a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'&gt;https://redcircle.com/privacy&lt;/a&gt;</description>

Social Proof Podcast

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The $35,000 Lie: How Weddings Keep You Poor - David Shands

DEC 11, 202527 MIN
Social Proof Podcast

The $35,000 Lie: How Weddings Keep You Poor - David Shands

DEC 11, 202527 MIN

Description

Weddings are supposed to be about love, commitment, and building a life together…So why do they leave so many couples broke, stressed, and in debt before the marriage even begins?In today’s episode, we break down the real truth behind modern weddings — how the industry was engineered to drain your pockets, how marketing rewired our culture, and why most couples are starting their marriage with a financial time bomb.If you’re planning a wedding…If you’ve ever felt pressured to “show out”…Or if you simply want to build a stable future with the person you love…This episode is the reality check you need.In this episode we cover:How weddings became a $70 billion financial trapWhy “tradition” is really just marketing you didn’t know you believedThe diamond ring scam that changed the worldHow the wedding tax rips off young couplesWhy 67% of couples go into debt before the honeymoonThe $45,000 mistake couples pay off for yearsHow debt silently destroys love, trust, and stabilityWhat a financially smart wedding actually looks likeScripts to tell your family “we’re doing it our way”How to build a marriage, not a momentThis is more than an episode — it’s a blueprint for any couple who wants peace instead of pressure, stability instead of flexing, and real love instead of a six-hour performance.Our Sponsors:* Check out ClickUp and use my code SOCIALPROOF for a great deal: https://www.clickup.com* Check out Incogni: https://incogni.com/socialproof* Check out Indeed: https://indeed.com/SOCIALPROOF* Check out NordProtect: https://nordprotect.com/socialproof* Check out Northwest Registered Agent and use my code socialprooffree for a great deal: https://northwestregisteredagent.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy