<p><iframe src="https://player.blubrry.com/getnakedlive/latest/#mode-Light&#38;border=000000&#38;progress-000000" width="100%" height="165px" frameborder="0"></iframe></p> <h3 data-start="306" data-end="458"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">Being the strong one in rooms that were never built for you often comes at a cost, especially when you’ve learned to keep going no matter what it takes.</span></h3> <p data-start="460" data-end="644"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">This episode is story two of the 26 Black Women Storytelling Series, where Black women share what being strong has cost them, and the kind of support that could have made a difference.</span></p> <p data-start="646" data-end="794"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">In this conversation, Cynthia “Cyn” Strickland shares what it cost to be the one holding it all together in spaces where she was often the only one who looked like her.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">For Cynthia, being the strong one in rooms not built for her wasn’t just about work, it shaped how she showed up in every part of her life.</span></p> <p data-start="796" data-end="980"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">Cynthia has spent decades building a career across technology, consulting, and leadership, showing up, delivering, and proving herself in rooms that were not designed with her in mind.</span></p> <p data-start="982" data-end="1132"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">But behind the success was a pattern of pushing through, compartmentalizing, and moving on without ever stopping to process what she had been through.</span></p> <p data-start="1134" data-end="1412"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">From navigating serious health moments alone, to having her work taken and handed to someone else, to realizing she was being valued for what she could produce but not seen as a full person, this conversation explores what it means to lose your voice while appearing successful.</span></p> <p data-start="1414" data-end="1523"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">We talk about workplace pressure, identity, and the emotional cost of always being the one who can handle it. This is what being the strong one in rooms not built for you can look like when it goes unspoken for too long.</span></p> <p data-start="1525" data-end="1671"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">This episode is also a reminder that just because you’ve learned how to navigate hard spaces doesn’t mean you were ever meant to carry them alone.</span></p> <p data-start="1673" data-end="1763"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">And sometimes the real shift begins when you allow yourself to be seen beyond what you do.</span></p> <p><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">Cynthia’s story reflects a deep need for Mindful Care – the kind of support that checks in, follows up, and creates space for you to be honest about what’s really going on.</span></p> <p data-start="1939" data-end="2097"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">If you’ve ever felt like you had to prove yourself in every room, or like your value was tied to what you could produce, this conversation will stay with you.</span></p> <p data-start="1180" data-end="1351"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">If you found yourself listening and thinking, “this is me,” but you’re not sure what support would even look like, the Support Languages™ assessment can help you start to put language to that: <a href="https://shadesofstrong.com/supportlanguages/"> shadesofstrong.com/supportlanguages</a>.</span></p> <hr /> <p><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: Georgia, Palatino;"><strong>About Cynthia Strickland</strong></span></p> <p data-start="270" data-end="490"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">Cynthia “Cyn” Strickland is a writer, strategist, and entrepreneur who works with high-achieving professionals, especially Black women and LGBTQ+ leaders, who are starting to question the lives and careers they’ve built.</span></p> <p data-start="492" data-end="661"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">Before this chapter of her life, Cynthia spent years navigating spaces where she was often the only one who looked like her, building a career across technology, consulting, and leadership.</span></p> <p data-start="663" data-end="756"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">Over time, she began to notice what constantly holding everything together was asking of her.</span></p> <p data-start="758" data-end="999"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">In 2024, after years of monitoring, biopsies, and a lumpectomy, Cynthia underwent a double mastectomy followed by radiation treatment. That experience shifted how she thinks about time, work, and what it really means to take care of herself.</span></p> <p data-start="1001" data-end="1198"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">Now, through her writing and the work she does with others, Cynthia creates space for people to rethink success, tell the truth about what they’ve been carrying, and choose a different way forward.</span></p> <hr /> <p data-start="1014" data-end="1223"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><strong>Connect with Cynthia Strickland<br /> </strong> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cstrick9/">Instagram</a> &#124; <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/cynthia-m-strickland">LinkedIn</a> &#124; <a href="https://stricklycyn.substack.com/">Substack</a></span><br /> </span></p> <hr /> <p><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;"><strong data-start="2044" data-end="2071">About Shades of Strong®</strong></span><br data-start="2071" data-end="2074" /><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">Shades of Strong® is a space where Black women come to breathe, reflect, and reclaim strength without the struggle. Support Pauses are short, soulful reminders that you don’t have to carry it all alone. New episodes drop every weekday.</span></p> <hr /> <h3><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino; font-size: 12pt;"><strong>Resources to Support You:</strong></span></h3> <ul> <li><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-family: Georgia, Palatino;"><strong><a href="https://forms.gle/VsfFMjNjMt6eVLJp7"><span style="color: #ff7300;">Black Women Storytelling Series</span></a></strong></span></li> <li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;"><a href="https://shadesofstrong.com/support-sessions/"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><strong><span style="color: #ff7300;">Schedule a 1:1 Support Session</span></strong></span></a></span></li> <li><span style="color: #ff7300; font-family: Georgia, Palatino;"><span style="color: #ff7300;"><strong><a style="color: #ff7300;" href="https://shadesofstrong.myflodesk.com/supportlanguageguide">Get the Guide: &#8220;You Know Your Support Language™—Now What?&#8221;</a></strong></span></span></li> <li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;"><span style="color: #ff7300;"><a style="color: #ff7300;" href="https://shadesofstrong.com/supportlanguages/" rel="noopener"><strong>Take the Support Language™ Quiz</strong>. </a></span><span style="color: #000000;">and learn how you <em data-start="834" data-end="844">actually</em> receive support best.</span></span></li> <li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;"><strong><span style="font-size: 12pt;"><a style="color: #ff7300;" href="https://shadesofstrong.myflodesk.com/theporch">Get Support Right in Your Inbox</a>: </span></strong><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Gentle words, real-life reflection, and soft reminders </span><span style="font-size: 12pt;">every week  </span></span></span></li> <li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;"><strong><span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #ff7300;"><a style="color: #ff7300;" href="https://apps.apple.com/us/app/sistahs-connect-radio/id6758016687">Download Sistah&#8217;s Connect Radio in the Apple Store</a></span></strong></span></li> <li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino; font-size: 12pt;"><strong><span style="color: #ff7300;"><a style="color: #ff7300;" href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.live365.sistahsconnectradio&#38;hl=en_US">Download Sistah&#8217;s Connect Radion in Google Play</a></span></strong></span></li> </ul> <hr /> <p><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;"><strong><span style="font-size: 12pt;">Let’s Stay Connected:</span></strong></span></p> <ul> <li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">Subscribe to <em data-start="1763" data-end="1781">Shades of Strong</em> on Apple Podcasts or your favorite platform</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;"> Share this episode with a sista who’s tired of being the strong one</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">Leave a review if the episode spoke to your spirit — it helps more Black women find this space</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">Submit your questions to [email protected]</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;">Follow Shades of Strong on <strong><span style="color: #ff7300;"><a style="color: #ff7300;" href="https://www.instagram.com/shadesofstrong/">Instagram</a> </span></strong>for daily reflections on what it means to be suppoted</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;"><strong><span style="color: #ff7300;"><a style="color: #ff7300;" href="https://shadesofstrong.com/">www.shadesofstrong.com</a></span></strong></span></li> </ul> <div class="xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs x126k92a"> <div dir="auto"> <hr /> <p><span style="font-family: Georgia, Palatino;"><em>Shirl Hubbard is the creator of Support Languages™ and host of Shades of Strong® — a movement shifting the narrative from Strong Black Woman to Supported Black Woman™ through language, rest, and real support.</em></span></p> <hr /> </div> </div>