<p>šŸ“˜ <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY!</a></p><p><br></p><p>A listener writes in about the woman he loves—smart, beautiful, and ready for marriage… except she believes a man should pay for everything while she saves her own money ā€œfor security.ā€ She says a woman shouldn’t spend on an able-bodied man. He calls it an escape route. Now he’s wondering: is this financial boundary a red flag or just her way of protecting herself after trauma?</p><p><br></p><p>We talk:</p><p>šŸ’¬ ā€œYou can’t build a marriage while keeping one foot out the door.ā€ — Glen breaks down why financial distrust is often emotional distrust in disguise.</p><p>šŸ’° How ā€œwife allowanceā€ culture and social media talking points are warping partnership into transaction.</p><p>ā¤ļø The difference between protecting yourself and refusing to be a team.</p><p>🧱 Why unhealed trauma around money can become the foundation of your marriage — and eventually its fault line.</p><p>šŸ™šŸ¾ Yvette shares how witnessing her own mother’s financial vulnerability shaped her drive for independence—and how healthy transparency healed that fear in marriage.</p><p><br></p><p>Would you marry someone who refuses to combine money with you? šŸ¤” </p><p>Episode 267 of How Married Are You? is live—tap in and share your thoughts!</p>

How Married Are You?

Glen & Yvette Henry

He Wants to Marry Her But She Wants Him to Pay For Everything #HMAY Ep. 267

NOV 4, 202534 MIN
How Married Are You?

He Wants to Marry Her But She Wants Him to Pay For Everything #HMAY Ep. 267

NOV 4, 202534 MIN

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<p>šŸ“˜ <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY!</a></p><p><br></p><p>A listener writes in about the woman he loves—smart, beautiful, and ready for marriage… except she believes a man should pay for everything while she saves her own money ā€œfor security.ā€ She says a woman shouldn’t spend on an able-bodied man. He calls it an escape route. Now he’s wondering: is this financial boundary a red flag or just her way of protecting herself after trauma?</p><p><br></p><p>We talk:</p><p>šŸ’¬ ā€œYou can’t build a marriage while keeping one foot out the door.ā€ — Glen breaks down why financial distrust is often emotional distrust in disguise.</p><p>šŸ’° How ā€œwife allowanceā€ culture and social media talking points are warping partnership into transaction.</p><p>ā¤ļø The difference between protecting yourself and refusing to be a team.</p><p>🧱 Why unhealed trauma around money can become the foundation of your marriage — and eventually its fault line.</p><p>šŸ™šŸ¾ Yvette shares how witnessing her own mother’s financial vulnerability shaped her drive for independence—and how healthy transparency healed that fear in marriage.</p><p><br></p><p>Would you marry someone who refuses to combine money with you? šŸ¤” </p><p>Episode 267 of How Married Are You? is live—tap in and share your thoughts!</p>