<p>This episode centers on two powerful listener emails — one from a man afraid his insecurity is destroying a healthy relationship, and another from a woman untangling herself from a four-year situationship filled with hidden children, heartbreak, miscarriages, and blurred co-parenting lines.</p><p>We talk honestly about trust, emotional safety, soul-ties, red flags, and why some relationships can’t be prayed into health.</p><p>Around the emails, we also share a hilarious family moment involving an accidental birds-and-bees talk at dinner, and a quick update on the book tour and Patreon goals.</p><p>This one is vulnerable, grounded, and full of clarity for anyone trying to love better and choose wiser.</p><p><br></p><p>✨ What You’ll Hear</p><ul><li>How insecurity dims your partner’s light</li><li>Taking thoughts captive vs. letting fear run the relationship</li><li>Why “she’s too friendly” might be about you, not her</li><li>What emotional safety looks like in dating</li><li>A jaw-dropping story about hidden kids, lies, and postpartum abandonment</li><li>Why F-boy patterns repeat — and how to break yours</li><li>The truth about co-parenting with someone who won’t commit</li><li>How to protect your heart while still raising your child well</li><li>Community updates + how your support keeps the show going</li></ul><p>📚 Resources &amp; Links</p><p>Order the book:</p><p>👉 Father Yourself First</p><p>https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555</p><p><br></p><p>Audiobook:🎧 Glen narrates the full audiobook wherever audiobooks are sold.</p><p><br></p><p>Tour dates &amp; signings:</p><p>📍 Follow @beleafmel for ATL, LA, NYC + more</p><p>https://www.instagram.com/beleafmel</p><p><br></p><p>Premarital Advantage (PMA):</p><p>💍 Tools for dating, engaged, or healing singles</p><p>https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2</p><p><br></p><p>Saturday Men’s Group (Black men | 7 a.m. PT):</p><p>Join the Father Meet-Up</p><p>https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81971875325?pwd=cY3k96A8j1b0WMLPHF5ym0bNSNaRdj.1</p><p><br></p><p>Patreon Community:</p><p>🌿 Longer episodes + ad-free + behind-the-scenes</p><p>www.patreon.com/HMAY</p><p><br></p><p>💬 Join the Conversation</p><p>What was the moment you realized a relationship wasn’t safe for your heart?</p><p>Drop it below — your wisdom might free somebody.</p><p><br></p><p>❤️ If This Helped You</p><p>Like, subscribe, and share with someone navigating trust, blended families, or heartbreak healing.</p>