Have you ever left a meeting furious at yourself for going along with something you knew was wrong? Or watched a talented colleague completely fold in front of a powerful leader?
That's not a character flaw. That's fawning β€” and it might be the least understood dynamic in communication.
Dr. Ingrid Clayton is a licensed clinical psychologist, trauma expert, and author of Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves, and How to Find Our Way Back.
I am closing Season 6 of my podcast with this conversation, and let me tell you ... we get INTO IT!Β 
🧠 What fawning actually is β€” and why calling it "people-pleasing" has kept millions of people stuck in shame instead of healing
⚑ Why high achievers are especially vulnerable β€” and how fawning can look exactly like success until it doesn't
🏒 What's really happening in your meetings β€” when brilliant people go silent, fold, or suddenly can't stop praising the boss
πŸ’ͺ The path out β€” practical, embodied tools for building an internal sense of safety that doesn't depend on the room agreeing with you
πŸ”₯ What "un-fawning" actually feels like β€” and why it's less about setting boundaries and more about finally coming home to yourself
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Find Dr. Ingrid Clayton:
🌐 ingridclayton.com
πŸ“Έ instagram.com/ingridclaytonphd
πŸ“˜ facebook.com/IngridClaytonPhD
▢️ youtube.com/channel/UC3PvWTgJMirURfgHWj3h28g
βœ‰οΈ substack.com/@ingridclaytonphd
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20 Minutes with Bronwyn

Bronwyn Saglimbeni

The Fawn Response: Why the Smartest People in the Room Go Silent

FEB 26, 202647 MIN
20 Minutes with Bronwyn

The Fawn Response: Why the Smartest People in the Room Go Silent

FEB 26, 202647 MIN

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Have you ever left a meeting furious at yourself for going along with something you knew was wrong? Or watched a talented colleague completely fold in front of a powerful leader? That's not a character flaw. That's fawning β€” and it might be the least understood dynamic in communication. Dr. Ingrid Clayton is a licensed clinical psychologist, trauma expert, and author of Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves, and How to Find Our Way Back. I am closing Season 6 of my podcast with this conversation, and let me tell you ... we get INTO IT!Β  🧠 What fawning actually is β€” and why calling it "people-pleasing" has kept millions of people stuck in shame instead of healing ⚑ Why high achievers are especially vulnerable β€” and how fawning can look exactly like success until it doesn't 🏒 What's really happening in your meetings β€” when brilliant people go silent, fold, or suddenly can't stop praising the boss πŸ’ͺ The path out β€” practical, embodied tools for building an internal sense of safety that doesn't depend on the room agreeing with you πŸ”₯ What "un-fawning" actually feels like β€” and why it's less about setting boundaries and more about finally coming home to yourself Β  Find Dr. Ingrid Clayton: 🌐 ingridclayton.com πŸ“Έ instagram.com/ingridclaytonphd πŸ“˜ facebook.com/IngridClaytonPhD ▢️ youtube.com/channel/UC3PvWTgJMirURfgHWj3h28g βœ‰οΈ substack.com/@ingridclaytonphd Β