<p>It feels a little vulnerable getting my boyfriend on the mic with me to talk a bit openly together for strangers lol. I also wondered if this episode would come across like I was bragging about my relationship being in a good place when I know so many people struggle, or if it would be too boring because, well, listening to a secure, happy, sexually satisfied couple talk about their relationship is not the most entertaining thing in the world haha. But I do believe it's important for other people to hear/witness what security does sound like, so they know what's possible for them too and to not settle for less! I've had clients tell me things they want and then say "I would love...But I know that kind of love doesn't even exist so I'd even settle for..." and I'll cut in like "Whatttt? No, it does exist." </p><p>So hopefully you see the value in listening to security, so that you can build on it yourself or find it. If you work to be a secure man, than you will attract or keep a secure woman. &lt;3</p><p>00:00 Cringe Introduction lol</p><p>00:53 Handling Conflict in Relationships</p><p>03:47 Maintaining Playfulness and Humor</p><p>06:28 Deepening the Relationship</p><p>08:24 Sexual Surprises and Communication</p><p>11:10 Expressing Emotions and Frustrations</p><p>16:19 Discussing Fantasies and Kinks</p><p>19:28 Dirty Talk</p><p>21:17 Signing off</p><p><br>Interested in 1:1 coaching for your sex life? <br>https://www.stephanieganowski.com/coaching-application-video/</p>

What I Love About Sex

Stephanie Ganowski

How a Secure Couple Talks About Sex: A Real Conversation With My Boyfriend #415

NOV 19, 202521 MIN
What I Love About Sex

How a Secure Couple Talks About Sex: A Real Conversation With My Boyfriend #415

NOV 19, 202521 MIN

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It feels a little vulnerable getting my boyfriend on the mic with me to talk a bit openly together for strangers lol. I also wondered if this episode would come across like I was bragging about my relationship being in a good place when I know so many people struggle, or if it would be too boring because, well, listening to a secure, happy, sexually satisfied couple talk about their relationship is not the most entertaining thing in the world haha. But I do believe it's important for other people to hear/witness what security does sound like, so they know what's possible for them too and to not settle for less! I've had clients tell me things they want and then say "I would love...But I know that kind of love doesn't even exist so I'd even settle for..." and I'll cut in like "Whatttt? No, it does exist." 

So hopefully you see the value in listening to security, so that you can build on it yourself or find it. If you work to be a secure man, than you will attract or keep a secure woman. <3

00:00 Cringe Introduction lol

00:53 Handling Conflict in Relationships

03:47 Maintaining Playfulness and Humor

06:28 Deepening the Relationship

08:24 Sexual Surprises and Communication

11:10 Expressing Emotions and Frustrations

16:19 Discussing Fantasies and Kinks

19:28 Dirty Talk

21:17 Signing off


Interested in 1:1 coaching for your sex life? 
https://www.stephanieganowski.com/coaching-application-video/